I don’t like her much because she justify’s Edens actions constantly but from her lives you can see she’s broken, no one should be betrayed the way she has it’s horridAm I the only person who still doesn’t like sofshe’s been as bad as Eden in the past. She’s not pretty she just knows how to use filters
I don’t think it matters personally, I think the worst thing is that the kids were upset - however that happened.I’m not justifying it but was she still with the dad?
I know they have a kid together and Yaz was supposed to be her friend but she’s going on like they were still together..
Yaz did the wrong thing 100% by Lee and Sof but I’m interested to know how long sof and him were together and how long they’ve been broken up. Were they even together?
How do the kids know? I feel like I’ve missed a chunk of the story..I don’t think it matters personally, I think the worst thing is that the kids were upset - however that happened.
Yeah I know me too.How do the kids know? I feel like I’ve missed a chunk of the story..
Yeah I agreed Yaz shouldn’t have done it, it’s sofs reaction that surprises me most though. I can understand her being pissed off but I don’t get why it’s ‘broken’ her and why she’s potentially told her kids what happened unless they were still together or recently separated.I don't think being together matters if it's your kids dad and someone who is meant to be your good friend. Just my opinion though
They could have still been really close?Yeah I agreed Yaz shouldn’t have done it, it’s sofs reaction that surprises me most though. I can understand her being pissed off but I don’t get why it’s ‘broken’ her and why she’s potentially told her kids what happened unless they were still together or recently separated.
I don’t have children so I guess maybe I don’t understand but if someone slept with my long term ex then I’d not be broken over it. If it was my friend I’d be angry at her I’m sure.
Yeah I don’t think the kids know their dad was doing the nasty with Yaz I think they were impacted by the effects of it coming out. For example, he could have argued with sof becauwe if it and then decided (or sof) to stop contact which then upset the children. People are that twatty. And if sof stopped contact because of it, then she’s a twit too.Sof said that her daughter was waiting for her dad to come pick her up but he was with Yaz. Or something along those lines
Yeah I knowI can’t believe the Daily Mail article has rattled her into not posting. She is most certainly the type to google herself daily so she must have known about the article before.
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That might be exactly why you would react different. I mean this with absolutely no offence, but as you said, you don’t have children. It isn’t just an ‘ex’ when you’ve had kids with a man. At some point in your life you planned a future life with that man, had his children, lived with each other 24/7, watched him raise your children. If any friend done that to another woman when they didn’t have children, that’s low. But a friend that you’ve grown up with and often refer to as a 4th sister with your kids dad? Nahhh that’s pushing it waaay too far.Yeah I agreed Yaz shouldn’t have done it, it’s sofs reaction that surprises me most though. I can understand her being pissed off but I don’t get why it’s ‘broken’ her and why she’s potentially told her kids what happened unless they were still together or recently separated.
I don’t have children so I guess maybe I don’t understand but if someone slept with my long term ex then I’d not be broken over it. If it was my friend I’d be angry at her I’m sure.
This would make more sense if it happened whilst the kids were involved like waiting for their dad and being let down as such. I don’t want to speculate as I don’t know the full story, I didn’t even know that bit of info until now. I just assumed she’d told the kids like ‘oh you know yaz, well she slept with your dad’ kind of thingI don’t think we know any of the details but sof saying her daughter was waiting for her dad while he was with her just shows how deep this is. None of us know how it came out the kids could of been there and if it was me I wouldn’t be able to hold back my emotions kids there or not I would be ragging that scab all over the road. So unless sof comes out and tells us we can’t even start to begin to understand.
She did say stuff like it would ruin Yaz if it came out and it has tore her family to bits. So there is a lot more to it. Also they have all been friends right from the kids being born so I can imagine it was a bit like Freya and they all helped with the babies and was really there for each other.
Let’s face it Eden has no friends so they was probably as close as family.
I don’t think sof will ever tell tbh but Yaz deserves all the backlash from it. It’s her life and she’s distraught as majority of us on here would be. Them kids are old enough to understand right and wrong and I can imagine the kids loved Yaz like an auntie so they’ve essentially lost an auntie. Sof will never ever forgive or be friends with her she said so they’ve all lost someone they thought of as family.That might be exactly why you would react different. I mean this with absolutely no offence, but as you said, you don’t have children. It isn’t just an ‘ex’ when you’ve had kids with a man. At some point in your life you planned a future life with that man, had his children, lived with each other 24/7, watched him raise your children. If any friend done that to another woman when they didn’t have children, that’s low. But a friend that you’ve grown up with and often refer to as a 4th sister with your kids dad? Nahhh that’s pushing it waaay too far.
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This would make more sense if it happened whilst the kids were involved like waiting for their dad and being let down as such. I don’t want to speculate as I don’t know the full story, I didn’t even know that bit of info until now. I just assumed she’d told the kids like ‘oh you know yaz, well she slept with your dad’ kind of thing![]()
but even this is an assumption. Plenty of people have one night stands and get pregnant, that’s why I’d like to know more. We don’t know that they ever lived together or were in a relationship.That might be exactly why you would react different. I mean this with absolutely no offence, but as you said, you don’t have children. It isn’t just an ‘ex’ when you’ve had kids with a man. At some point in your life you planned a future life with that man, had his children, lived with each other 24/7, watched him raise your children. If any friend done that to another woman when they didn’t have children, that’s low. But a friend that you’ve grown up with and often refer to as a 4th sister with your kids dad? Nahhh that’s pushing it waaay too far.
It's still sly for Yaz to do that. She's broken sofs trust. It just shows how little she cares about sofs feelingsbut even this is an assumption. Plenty of people have one night stands and get pregnant, that’s why I’d like to know more. We don’t know that they ever lived together or were in a relationship.
Okay yeah I get what you’re saying. But he’s still the kids dad. And he clearly has regular visits with them and sees them often as the past comments have said he was due to pick them up when he was with yaz. So sof has to live her life along side this man until the kids are old enough. So in my opinion it’s still gut wrenching to have happen to you by someone you’ve grown up with and class as a sisterbut even this is an assumption. Plenty of people have one night stands and get pregnant, that’s why I’d like to know more. We don’t know that they ever lived together or were in a relationship.