Urghhh. I genuinely didn’t think this would happen. Ex got back in touch saying he’d had a breakdown and wasn’t ‘lucid’ when we broke up and he knows it’s probably too late but he still loves me and is willing to work on everything and his emotional growth as hard as it takes to be a better person etc etc etc. also sent me videos of an open mic night he did where he sang a song about me and one about my children. WHY do they do this when you’ve just started to move on
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i told him that I would reply today but I did say that I’d realised he was right and done the work to accept we aren’t compatible and he was like ‘wow that hurts’ - they were your own words pal! ‘Yes but I didn’t know what I was saying.’
Now I just feel like a horrible person because I need to say, you had your chance, you let me wallow and sink to the bottom and I’ve just started clawing my way out of it and I cannot make the space for this negativity/let myself be drained again. But it makes me feel like a dick because he keeps going on about his mental health. Bleugh