I have to agree with everyone here. The advice and POVs I've received only in the past few months have been nothing but supportive and understanding. Besides that even though this is an anonymous forum, I feel this is fast becoming a little family outlet for me and I love hearing everyone's dating updates and reassurance that a lot us are in the same boat!
@Agent Cooper Oh totally get you! I just meant keep posting as i enjoy hearing your experiences and advice, just like everyone here
@melisnusty Only you know what you need/want in this situation and I think we all have the same intentions here which is to help and advice not to judge and of course I can only speak for myself here in that I'm not a trained therapist, I wish I was! But I do think put together we've all had vast amounts of accumulated experience in the dating world! I have been a mental health ambassador for the company I work for. I've spoken to them on zoom meetings, talks and done a panel discussion in front of 60 of my colleagues talking about my battles. I'm also doing a talk to 200 people about it in August 🫤 I'm far from professionally qualified but I have learned so much about our minds, how they work and anxiety, depression etc over almost 20 years and the most important thing I've learned is how we can still learn from each other
I did notice you had said you were worried about you size. Girl, I'm a curvy lady too and although I'm still conscious about it, my experience so far is that most men don't care. Of course we're going to worry about how we are perceived looks wise but it's all about the confidence we portray even if we're not fully feeling 100% confident with ourselves! I hope you can find what you're looking for