Dating after lockdown #28 It’s not you, it’s dating.

[xcyber]

I usually responded with this emoji . Tedious AF tbh. Like the sex chat from the off was sooooo boring to me.

 

[itsnotmereally]

Deleted all apps. Found out my ex is with a girl who befriended me a month or so ago. Even to tonight she is messaging me.

 

[mozzarellagirl]

Deleted all apps. Found out my ex is with a girl who befriended me a month or so ago. Even to tonight she is messaging me.

wait so she's befriending and chatting to you knowing she's dating your ex?
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omg I do all of these then wonder why I waste my time! I know unmatching is the best thing to do but sometimes I get so annoyed! Earlier I did the bumble speed dating (slow night haha) and asked a guy ‘what’s your fave thing to do in your spare time?’ He responded:
‘Licking

Spoiler: 🐱

pussy

where is the need? Honestly he was 32 years old ffs.

noooo this just reminded me of when i was at uni, a guy went down on me and it was like a cat drinking milk from a saucer

 

[Usagisakura90]

wait so she's befriending and chatting to you knowing she's dating your ex?
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noooo this just reminded me of when i was at uni, a guy went down on me and it was like a cat drinking milk from a saucer

I shouldn't of laughed so much at this

Especially as my now ex I suppose....wouldn't even do it so I went without men can be selfish lovers

 

[itsnotmereally]

wait so she's befriending and chatting to you knowing she's dating your ex?
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Yep. Reached out to me as her ex is my exes friend. Have confided in her over the last few weeks and last night I found out they’re secretly together.
She has no idea I know.

 

[Clementine]

I shouldn't of laughed so much at this

Especially as my now ex I suppose....wouldn't even do it so I went without men can be selfish lovers

Don’t EVER put up with that again.

 

[IGiveUp22]

Yep. Reached out to me as her ex is my exes friend. Have confided in her over the last few weeks and last night I found out they’re secretly together.
She has no idea I know.

Why are people so weird??

Also, are you chatting about who your ex is with now & she’s talking bad about said girl? Which is in fact herself? I’m confused.

Also weird if her ex is a friend of your ex…she doesn’t sound very trustworthy & neither does your ex

 

[harveydean]

Yep. Reached out to me as her ex is my exes friend. Have confided in her over the last few weeks and last night I found out they’re secretly together.
She has no idea I know.

This is really shady. How are you going to play it?

 

[Kimmylookatme]

noooo this just reminded me of when i was at uni, a guy went down on me and it was like a cat drinking milk from a saucer
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Laughed way too much

 

[mozzarellagirl]

noooo this just reminded me of when i was at uni, a guy went down on me and it was like a cat drinking milk from a saucer

he huffed and threw the duvet over his head before going down and then proceeded to saucer me anyway... it lasted 3 seconds and i shoved his head away

this was after he told me that he didn't go down on women because of STI's (?) but would happily recieve blow jobs and have unprotected sex...

 

[D2them]

he huffed and threw the duvet over his head before going down and then proceeded to saucer me anyway... it lasted 3 seconds and i shoved his head away

this was after he told me that he didn't go down on women because of STI's (?) but would happily recieve blow jobs and have unprotected sex...

Christ

 

[itsnotmereally]

Why are people so weird??

Also, are you chatting about who your ex is with now & she’s talking bad about said girl? Which is in fact herself? I’m confused.

Also weird if her ex is a friend of your ex…she doesn’t sound very trustworthy & neither does your ex

Yep she is the one I’m referring to but doesn’t know, I know. Messy.

 

[mozzarellagirl]

Yep. Reached out to me as her ex is my exes friend. Have confided in her over the last few weeks and last night I found out they’re secretly together.
She has no idea I know.

what the actual duck? block immediatley.

 

[itsnotmereally]

This is really shady. How are you going to play it?

Pure ignorance for now.

 

[Clementine]

That’s messed up. What’s her agenda? People, man

 

[itsnotmereally]

That’s messed up. What’s her agenda? People, man

Who knows. I just don’t get rotten people. I can’t understand a mindset like hers.

 

[Agent Cooper]

Who knows. I just don’t get rotten people. I can’t understand a mindset like hers.

Don’t waste your time trying to understand, block them both. What a pair of cunts

 

[Facehugger]

Yep she is the one I’m referring to but doesn’t know, I know. Messy.

Forgive me, I only normally read here as I'm not dating but some posters & their stories here are so funny. I think she suspects you might know and is dangling a carrot to bait you to see if you'll spill

 

[LaBlonde]

Forgive me, I only normally read here as I'm not dating but some posters & their stories here are so funny. I think she suspects you might know and is dangling a carrot to bait you to see if you'll spill

1000% this.

there is some SHADY behaviour going on here and i don’t like it at all.

also i never considered that “non-daters” (if that’s the right phrase) would read here

 

[mozzarellagirl]

@itsnotmereally
i would say "although i did hear something the other day about the woman he's dating now" and keep chatting like normal but ignore her when she asks about what you've heard. she'll be pulling her hair out, i've got the dangling carrot now girl bite bite