Dating after lockdown #23 Can you HTML though?

[Sandor]

Thanks @MsCurly and @Thank(space)you - I don’t think it’s feelings of not deserving love. I think it’s after the last 18 months, I’ve gone from thinking I’m pretty good at seeing things as they are, to now having no clue. I try to just take people as they come but it’s hard right now. And no stalking, we live very near each other (in fact I was walking down the road that leads to his street) so it’s not unlikely that we’d cross paths. It was just surprising, I think he likes me romantically but he’s been very reserved. We’re both pretty introverted, I definitely would have pretended I hadn’t seen him and certainly wouldn’t have followed him in, even if it was nice to see him!

Enjoy your dates tonight lovelies

 

[Losa53]

Date went well, he picked me up and we went to nandos.
Conversation flowed nicely and we had little kiss and he dropped me home

 

[Thank(space)you]

My 30th is fast approaching and I know I need to let go of the timeline etc but I can't help but feel disappointed I'm still gonna be single I just wanted to meet someone and have another baby. I'm the only single one out of my friends bar one, I don't have anyone who can relate to how I'm feeling.
I just always imagined I'd be in a family by now. I don't even want to celebrate my birthday
I know a relationship isn't the be all and end all and I need to find my own happiness, but on a lonely Saturday night it gets to me sometimes

 

[xcyber]

My 30th is fast approaching and I know I need to let go of the timeline etc but I can't help but feel disappointed I'm still gonna be single I just wanted to meet someone and have another baby. I'm the only single one out of my friends bar one, I don't have anyone who can relate to how I'm feeling.
I just always imagined I'd be in a family by now. I don't even want to celebrate my birthday
I know a relationship isn't the be all and end all and I need to find my own happiness, but on a lonely Saturday night it gets to me sometimes

I felt like this approaching 30 (minus any kids) but honestly over the years that followed I truly became comfortable being on my own. Also when I did finally meet someone, I felt like I knew exactly who I was and he was the same and had worked through his previous relationship bad habits. Also post 30 life moves mad and you’ll find yourself meeting someone and within a year thinking of marriage, kids etc. I would honestly just try and enjoy this time! Your 30s are amazing. Also no one I know who married in their 20s is still together…. Just saying.

 

[Losa53]

So he messaged me asking if we would still like to do the golf date on Tuesday.
Was really nice that even after meeting he still being respectful just a bit more flirty but not over the top or cringe.
I'm just play it cool then I normally do
I have no expectations on this due to it always going wrong but surely 1 day things gotta progress lol

 

[candyland_]

My 30th is fast approaching and I know I need to let go of the timeline etc but I can't help but feel disappointed I'm still gonna be single I just wanted to meet someone and have another baby. I'm the only single one out of my friends bar one, I don't have anyone who can relate to how I'm feeling.
I just always imagined I'd be in a family by now. I don't even want to celebrate my birthday
I know a relationship isn't the be all and end all and I need to find my own happiness, but on a lonely Saturday night it gets to me sometimes

I think we have all felt similar at some point. I’ve had a whole year of watching everyone in my life have babies, get married and move in with their partners while I have felt at my lowest. From the outside their lives sound perfect but being close to them I know they all have problems of their own that I don’t have.

Focus on what you do have and look back at how much you’ve grown since you first started sharing your dating experiences on here. I hope you enjoy your birthday.

 

[Thank(space)you]

Thank you everyone, now to share a laugh.

A guy I went to school with added me on fb, me feeling sad and hormonal (due on period) I accepted. Went to send him a message, and our previous chat history is there.

I messaged him like "lol I forgot you stood me up last year" he claims he can't remember, he was in a bad place etc but I can't stop laughing

 

[candyland_]

The lad I was talking to that wanted me to go on the date tomorrow ended up spitting his dummy out because I wouldn’t get out of bed at midnight last night to see him. They always want to go a million miles an hour and then duck off in a huff.

 

[itsnotmereally]

The lad I was talking to that wanted me to go on the date tomorrow ended up spitting his dummy out because I wouldn’t get out of bed at midnight last night to see him. They always want to go a million miles an hour and then duck off in a huff.

Been there! Hopefully he has an apology for you today xx

 

[al255]

SO I’m led in bed full of a cold, feeling unwell and guess who WhatsApp’s me. Channing tatum..! He wants to meet me today. I’ve said I’m busy cos 1. I really am looking and feeling like tit and my head feels all stuffy 2. I’m in NO mood to have sex even if it’s with him.. I’ve told him I’m free Thursday & Friday night to go over to his. I mean it’s just for a bag so

 

[candyland_]

Been there! Hopefully he has an apology for you today xx

He went straight into the bin.. One chance only and all that.

 

[it’s not been changed?!]

I’ve seen the same person for the third time today on bumble. I’ve swiped no each time and every time I come across him again, he’s made a new profile.

I just tried to tag bagpuss7 as I was wondering where she was, but it looks like she’s deleted her account?!

 

[Thank(space)you]

I’ve seen the same person for the third time today on bumble. I’ve swiped no each time and every time I come across him again, he’s made a new profile.

I just tried to tag bagpuss7 as I was wondering where she was, but it looks like she’s deleted her account?!

is it @bagpuss07 ?

I come across the same profile on tinder despite me repeatedly swiping right, I feel your pain

 

[LaBlonde]

I just tried to tag bagpuss7 as I was wondering where she was, but it looks like she’s deleted her account?!

oh no, i was wondering where she was too and also can’t tag her i hope she’s doing okay

 

[suzuka__]

oh no, i was wondering where she was too and also can’t tag her i hope she’s doing okay

How are you doing LaBlonde?

 

[SpindleWhorl]

The lad I was talking to that wanted me to go on the date tomorrow ended up spitting his dummy out because I wouldn’t get out of bed at midnight last night to see him. They always want to go a million miles an hour and then duck off in a huff.

I've been watching Gavin & Stacey all day and read that in a Welsh accent

 

[LaBlonde]

How are you doing LaBlonde?

aw i’m okay! haven’t been posting here much as i’m just getting increasingly fed up with the whole dating thing (after a stream of men who are really interested for about two days and then suddenly stop replying). i think i’m accepting that i will never find anyone

how are you doing?

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

aw i’m okay! haven’t been posting here much as i’m just getting increasingly fed up with the whole dating thing (after a stream of men who are really interested for about two days and then suddenly stop replying). i think i’m accepting that i will never find anyone

how are you doing?

I join you! This dating site I was checking out recently sent me an email asking why I didn't want to join (and of course presenting me with various payment options ) so I responded by saying that I am not into horror shows.

Let's start a spinster thread and buy floral bedlinen!

 

[LaBlonde]

I join you! This dating site I was checking out recently sent me an email asking why I didn't want to join (and of course presenting me with various payment options ) so I responded by saying that I am not into horror shows.

Let's start a spinster thread and buy floral bedlinen!

the spinster thread looks more and more appealing by the day i love when dating apps ask for feedback or how i’m “enjoying it” because i literally never am.

and yes please!!! floral bedlinen and books and various pretty things - sounds like an amazing plan

 

[Losa53]

Honestly I give up...story off my life.