So I talk to this guy daily on sc & WhatsApp, been talking since March. I don't think anything can come of it as we live opposite ends of the country.
Anyway, I hadn't been on my phone for a few hours because I was out of the house and didn't have mobile data. He'd messaged in that time asking if I was ghosting him, as he'd not heard from me.
I replied when I was home with WiFi, apologised and explained the situation with the Data, and reassured him absolutely no ghosting.
He'd been online since my last message, but not opened it. So I got pissed off & before I went to bed just said along the lines of "I can see you've been online & not replied. This has really hurt me, duck you" (not my most mature moment) I felt like he was punishing me.
He's messaged this morning, not apologising, but just saying he's not ignoring me he had a family crisis
I'm here rolling my eyes because this thread has shown me men say this so many times, also it's a bit of a red flag to me that he's not apologised.
For context, I have BPD so my perception isn't always the best. Him not replying & him asking if I was ghosting are both very out of character behaviours
Am I overreacting?