Hm, what did you respond?
It seems like a fair question, but hard to respond to. I wouldn't know what to say... I would probably say "I haven't found my match yet" or something like that.
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It seems like a fair question, but hard to respond to. I wouldn't know what to say... I would probably say "I haven't found my match yet" or something like that.
"Nobody knows what it means, but it's provocative"
āIt means I enjoy my own company so I donāt feel the need to settle just for the sake of itā
I'm not really sure how much clearer you could be
A well meaning friend said to me today "I can't believe you're still single. It's been so long"
Ok gang, Iām homeā¦omgā¦Iām not used to this. Iām almost feeling a bit rejected because heās not my usual bastard type and didnāt try to drag me back to his. But I know those are my demons.
He was utterly adorableā¦insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kindā¦.a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. Weāre going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. bleeping hell i hope Iām not jinxed on the bleeping roast.
He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safelyā¦I honestly canāt believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.
Iām home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I
You guys xx
He was utterly adorableā¦insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kindā¦.a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. Weāre going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. bleeping hell i hope Iām not jinxed on the bleeping roast.
He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safelyā¦I honestly canāt believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.
Iām home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I
You guys xxI was dying to hear how you got on. Sounds so nice, you deserve this.Ok gang, Iām homeā¦omgā¦Iām not used to this. Iām almost feeling a bit rejected because heās not my usual bastard type and didnāt try to drag me back to his. But I know those are my demons.
He was utterly adorableā¦insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kindā¦.a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. Weāre going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. bleeping hell i hope Iām not jinxed on the bleeping roast.
He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safelyā¦I honestly canāt believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.
Iām home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I
No comment on the roast
Happy for you @BunnyLebowski 
Completely off topic but I found another immediate turn off, guys that take pictures of their cars
Completely off topic but I found another immediate turn off, guys that take pictures of their cars
Glad you had a good time! Are you still pursuing something with pension guy?Ok gang, Iām homeā¦omgā¦Iām not used to this. Iām almost feeling a bit rejected because heās not my usual bastard type and didnāt try to drag me back to his. But I know those are my demons.
He was utterly adorableā¦insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kindā¦.a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. Weāre going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. bleeping hell i hope Iām not jinxed on the bleeping roast.
He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safelyā¦I honestly canāt believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.
Iām home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I
I thought this was pension guy?
Which one is pension guy? The handsome bloke who I thought was after my pension? If so, no Iām not. He had a funny voice on the phone and I decided to trust my gut. So glad I did or I may not have met this boyā¦letās call him D.
Anyway. D did mention how he was looking forward to coming off the Apps and how he didnāt do multiple dating. bleeping canāt believe it.
Oh for sure, they're 110% bald or they've got a barely there hairline. Its just jokes bc they really think they're smarter than us & we won't catch on lolIf they're always wearing a hat in their photos I just assume they're bald
Or maybe they are conscious of their hair loss and feel more comfortable wearing a hat.
Aww Bunny, i know im not a frequent poster on here but i love reading your posts. I know from what you have previously said, that we share some qualities (in that we both have bpd and are bleeping awesome!). I promise im not a stalker but your posts really resonate with me at timesOk gang, Iām homeā¦omgā¦Iām not used to this. Iām almost feeling a bit rejected because heās not my usual bastard type and didnāt try to drag me back to his. But I know those are my demons.
He was utterly adorableā¦insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kindā¦.a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. Weāre going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. bleeping hell i hope Iām not jinxed on the bleeping roast.
He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safelyā¦I honestly canāt believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.
Iām home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I
She was talking about deleting her account as somebody upset her
Oh I must have missed all thisShe was talking about deleting her account as somebody upset her
That's not exactly true. She's happy in herself and moving anyway from any environments that don't match her vibe anymore, tattle being one of them.She was talking about deleting her account as somebody upset her
Thanks for clarifying, I was going back through the thread trying to figure out what upset her.
I'm glad she is in a good place
That is a real shame but glad sheās much happier than she was a few months ago. I would say she is a success story of this thread and helped point others towards resources that she found useful.
I have a date tonight 
But I can already kind of tell that I won't fancy him I hope it will still be an interesting evening though, we will be meeting for a couple of drinks at a wine bar near my place.
The guy that now moved has contacted me to propose to meet when he is back for a few days (for work reasons). I told him that this is not going to happen - I would not feel comfortable with him coming to see me (for sex) whenever he is in town. No thank you.
He was surprised and disappointed.
Then I was also chatting to a couple of guys on Bumble that I thought were quite cute - but it is hard going, they don't text as frequently as the less interesting guys. Why is that?
I don't want to seem too keen but don't know how to keep the communication going without coming across like that?
What do I do - any ideas?
But I can already kind of tell that I won't fancy him I hope it will still be an interesting evening though, we will be meeting for a couple of drinks at a wine bar near my place.The guy that now moved has contacted me to propose to meet when he is back for a few days (for work reasons). I told him that this is not going to happen - I would not feel comfortable with him coming to see me (for sex) whenever he is in town. No thank you.
He was surprised and disappointed.
Then I was also chatting to a couple of guys on Bumble that I thought were quite cute - but it is hard going, they don't text as frequently as the less interesting guys. Why is that?
I don't want to seem too keen but don't know how to keep the communication going without coming across like that?
What do I do - any ideas?
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