hereforthememe
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aw everyone I got news! The guy I've been seeing recently and clicked so well with asked me to be his girlfriend
Tough love here but you must take some responsibility for your own actions on this one. He has already presented to you as someone who does not and will never meet your needs or requirements. In your own words he is ā37, divorcee, doesnāt want to have kids - had the snip and has two already what a catch lolā - he also didnāt seem to want marriage either. Both things you want.Hi Gang, thanks for the tag in the new thread @Clickbait
I never messaged back and he hasnāt contacted me since this on Tuesday. I just thought heād contact. So I assume the date is offView attachment 835322
If Iām completely honest Iām not really in a good headspace now. Over the weekend when I was posting I was at a wedding on social media the bald 37 year old I mentioned in a few threads ago contacted me and I got 4 missed calls from him. He was Telling me how much he missed me and how lovely I looked. Saying he still liked me etc and He begged to meet up with me asking if he could book a hotel etc. I answered a call to speak to him because it had been over a month since we last had spoken especially as the last thing I said was he hurt my feelings. He was asking me how many dates Iād been on, if I still wear the hoodie of his he gave me etc
I asked him a few times if he was seeing someone his response every time was that it doesnāt matter, why does it matter. I didnāt feel like I got an answer and each time during the night / early hours of the morning he was pushing for me to FaceTime or send explicit pictures I said no. I said I couldnāt do this itās not fair on me or if heās seeing someone etc. He then said it would not be a good idea for us meeting and that he shouldnāt have messaged me.
Anyway long story short I decided to call him yesterday mainly to speak as I had a clear mind. I just felt really taken back by him contacting me after a month +. he never answered the phone nor call back but then blocked me on WhatsApp. Iām feeling hurt because I donāt know what I did wrong but more feel shitty as i got sucked back into this shit.
The poster was right when she said I canāt get past the first date I couldnāt even get a guy to text me again so I could go on one this Saturday
Yay! I have the same news myselfaw everyone I got news! The guy I've been seeing recently and clicked so well with asked me to be his girlfriend
Thread title nominationSanta, bring me a boyfriend. Hot and nice
I just want to say that you could have been wandering around offering hand jobs in the car park and still a man you have just met has absolutely no right to be jealous, possessive, lay his hands on you to physically remove you from situations he doesnāt like, nor kiss you in a weird ownership/marking his territory like a pissing dog manner.I was a little shocked at how he was with me that early on?! Now Iām wondering if I was behaving provocatively lol.
I would normally just be honest. I tended to try and buy the first drink if I knew I didnāt fancy them so that I could leave after a drink and not have them feeling they were out of pocket. One guy who I remember worked as an actor at the London Dungeons turned up 20 mins late despite the fact that Iād come into central London to meet him near work.Whats everyones opinion on leaving a bad date early? If someone was giving you bad vibes would you tell them that and leave, sneak out or just hold it out? In the past I have just rode it out but I don't see myself doing that anymore
Youāve done nothing wrong - you just took what he said at face value and there was no reason to believe otherwise. Now youāve seen his behaviour change and you know how it has made you feel, bear that in mind if/when you hear from him again. I think you probably will - the bad pennies tend to turn up again.It doesnāt seem like heās blocked me off anything yet. A text doesnāt take long, he could have just text to say Iām busy today, talk to you later but instead heās just totally ignored me and then not even opened the message last night. Last week he was making plans to go on day trips to the spa and stuff with me and now nothing. He clearly just wanted sex despite saying he wanted a relationship. I guess I shouldnāt have put all of my eggs in one basket really.