So I've been having a pretty shyte time of it all ...little update..
Mr Scotland- twindled out sadly.
Mr no signal/ powercut- declared his love for me via can I have a 2nd chance - he's gone in the bin.
Mr I've chosen Miss 1st choice - can I have a 2nd chance,it never worked out with her and you are soo amazing ( he dumped me via a you are amazing text but she's better) - he's also in the bin !
So I've been trying the apps and I did make a really good connection with a sailor, lots of voice notes and chat and we've arranged a date for 29th but he went quiet yesterday randomly..I'm on unread at the moment but my gut is screaming it's gone tits up !
But my biggest dilemma and one I'm really struggling with. My ex from 2016 is back. We have had this relationship on and off for 5 years, it ended badly last year after I think attempt number 3 to make a go of it. He found me on Tinder and I know I should have swiped the other way but I couldn't. So far he's being him but every day I'm waiting for him to vanish. I've been through some really
tit stuff this year and he's familiar and safe but I know he's not right for me and it will end as it always does by me being sad.
I know lots of you can relate to these toxic attachments that are soo hard to detach from. Any words of wisdom would help