Iām sure youāre more than that! I think seeing an insta is still unreliable. I would try to arrange something on FacetimeTrue but Iām average looking and he looks like a modelso thatās why Iām suspecting something is off
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I don't think there's anything unusual about thisIs it bad manners/seen as weird to ask to add someone on Instagram before actually meeting IRL? Guy from one of the apps is being quite forthcoming with trying to arrange a date (only matched at the weekend). Seems ātoo good to be trueā. I am worried itās a catfish or worse someone that will kidnap me
Ladies, you remember I posted this, here he isā¦You just reminded me of a time I went on a date with a guy who was recently divorced, wore Gucci trainers, had already had a hair transplant but was about to have another. We didnāt click at all but he was still on my IG, he then went onto sell his house, move to Aus, made various misogynistic comments about women on Instagram (including taking a photo of someone on a train) and has now come back to the UK now. If he comes up I will post a pic on here with face covered you can all avoid.
avoid avoid avoid
Also, random but I still talk to an old colleague on a professional social network every now and then and part of me grew fond of him, but I donāt ever want to approach him as I donāt think he felt it back. Also Iād hate him to think I was flirting with him whilst I was working with him. Donāt go there right?
Oasis should be a red flag if nothing else
Lol at his age being wrong and holding a bottle of champagne to pose tooOasis should be a red flag if nothing else
Hey @BunnyLebowski I'm really great at the minute, thanks for checking in with me.
How are you? Any fun stories ?
Somethings are just good manners. Itās better to give than receive and all that.
I good thanks. No fun stories so far, but I do have a lunchtime dog walking date tomorrow with a bloke who seems very nice. Tall, attractive, lovely dog. He gave up working in the city to start his own company dealing with ethical waste clearance and avoiding landfill from construction sites. As Iām NHS that is very much up my street. I donāt to bling n all that!
Glad to hear youāre well and I hope I have something more fun to tell you tomorrow night x
Ooh I just spoke to my date for tomorroā¦he accidentally called me whilst trying to save my number! He sounded lovely and we laughed a lot. Oh-oh Iāve already got a bit of a crush!
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Iāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
Oasis is one of my favourite bands but I must admit most men liking them can be somewhat questionableOasis should be a red flag if nothing else
You can either tell him you're not free & not explain yourself.Iāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
Or you can be honest and say you've got a busy day planned for work tomorrow so after work you need some down time
Iād just say something likeIāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
āthatās a bit too last minute for me, but if you want to schedule something with a bit more notice let me know
ā Keeps the door open for him to suggest a more suitable time then, and if he doesnāt it saves your time
Iād just say something likeIāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
āthatās a bit too last minute for me, but if you want to schedule something with a bit more notice let me know
ā Keeps the door open for him to suggest a more suitable time then, and if he doesnāt it saves your time
Donāt do what I just did.Iāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
He asked me if I was free Wednesday and I said nahhh my pussy is closed for dick appointments this week. bleeping hormones
If you're keen on meeting him just say you're really busy at work at the moment and don't want to commit to something when you know you could be asked at last minute to work later etc.Iāve been asked if Iām free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as heās not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I donāt like going on dates after work. Iām not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
Then suggest a time / place over the weekend so it doesn't seem like you're just pieing him off.
Interested for an update on @BunnyLebowski ās lunchtime date. It sounded promising. Iāve kept my fingers crossed heās not a hobbit with dirty nails and he has a pension fund! 
I've been checking in to see if there's any updates yet.Interested for an update on @BunnyLebowski ās lunchtime date. It sounded promising. Iāve kept my fingers crossed heās not a hobbit with dirty nails and he has a pension fund!
It sounds very romantic. Almost like the opening scene from some Hallmark movie
Oh my Godā¦.gangā¦..oh my bleeping God. I need to thank the old witch off here who kept telling us off and banging on about how we need to learn to love ourselves bla bla bla.
So I had no high hopes, very jaded etcā¦. Met this bloke today in a kind of ācouldnāt give a tit attitudeā.ā¦wearing leggings, dog walking boots, rough nail varnishā¦as in totally me. ( I can pull this look off, as I have great legs and Iām a bit of an aging surfer chick typeā¦but itās an acquired taste and I have noticed disappointment before on my lack of grooming shall we say).
This bleeping god of a man walks upā¦we have instant chemistry although play it cool with each other. Ok heās not everyoneās cup of tea. But perfect for me. A bit of roughā¦but well educated and intelligent. Heās 51 and quit his career in the city to start his own business doing ethical waste clearance. Right up my street.
Heās in his work gear all dirty and massive and manlyā¦ and a bit like ā this is meā¦I make no apologiesā.ā¦. Iām like ā āwell this is meā¦.ā!
We walk and talk, have a cup of teaā¦our dogs get onā¦actually his dog loves me and sat under my legs when we were having tea. It was so unsustainable to find someone as unusual / odd as me but so compatible.
Anyway, we are going on another walk on Sunday but this time a proper long walk on the southdowns.
Oh and by the way, to whomever mentioned the pensionā¦he started by tentatively asking if I rentedā¦.I was like NO! And Iāve nearly cleared my mortgageā¦how about you? He saidā¦and I kid you notā¦. Iāve nearly paid off the mortgage to my house tooā¦I also own the flat underneath me which is my PENSION!!!
BOOM gang!
So I had no high hopes, very jaded etcā¦. Met this bloke today in a kind of ācouldnāt give a tit attitudeā.ā¦wearing leggings, dog walking boots, rough nail varnishā¦as in totally me. ( I can pull this look off, as I have great legs and Iām a bit of an aging surfer chick typeā¦but itās an acquired taste and I have noticed disappointment before on my lack of grooming shall we say).
This bleeping god of a man walks upā¦we have instant chemistry although play it cool with each other. Ok heās not everyoneās cup of tea. But perfect for me. A bit of roughā¦but well educated and intelligent. Heās 51 and quit his career in the city to start his own business doing ethical waste clearance. Right up my street.
Heās in his work gear all dirty and massive and manlyā¦ and a bit like ā this is meā¦I make no apologiesā.ā¦. Iām like ā āwell this is meā¦.ā!
We walk and talk, have a cup of teaā¦our dogs get onā¦actually his dog loves me and sat under my legs when we were having tea. It was so unsustainable to find someone as unusual / odd as me but so compatible.
Anyway, we are going on another walk on Sunday but this time a proper long walk on the southdowns.
Oh and by the way, to whomever mentioned the pensionā¦he started by tentatively asking if I rentedā¦.I was like NO! And Iāve nearly cleared my mortgageā¦how about you? He saidā¦and I kid you notā¦. Iāve nearly paid off the mortgage to my house tooā¦I also own the flat underneath me which is my PENSION!!!
BOOM gang!
@BunnyLebowski absolutely delighted for you.
I throughly enjoyed reading your post.
He sounds perfect for you.
Will you please do me a favour though, if you stop off for lunch on Sunday, stay away from the bloody Roasts , have a nice carbonara or something
Not unsustainable damn autocorrectā¦I meant unusual
Omg omg omgā¦he just messaged saying āfeel free to call me before sunday if you fancy a chatāā¦..waaaaah! Umm yeah mate. I also want to strip you naked and climb you like a tree
Babeā¦.I love you so much. You have a room in my house in Brighton anytime you like.@BunnyLebowski absolutely delighted for you.
I throughly enjoyed reading your post.
He sounds perfect for you.
Will you please do me a favour though, if you stop off for lunch on Sunday, stay away from the bloody Roasts , have a nice carbonara or something
Omg omg omgā¦he just messaged saying āfeel free to call me before sunday if you fancy a chatāā¦..waaaaah! Umm yeah mate. I also want to strip you naked and climb you like a tree
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Ok I had a very specific image of you in my head and it defo wasnāt āageing surferā with a ālack of groomingā
I imagined you like a blonde nigella (maybe it was all the roast talk). But you sound even more fab now. Anyway glad you had a good time and that he has a pension!- Status