Gross? Nah. They go mad for it.
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It's no more gross than you going down on them, but that seems to be a given for most guys.Haha! I just always feel bad asking a guy to do it as I imagine itās probably quite a gross thing for them to doThatās just my own insecurity I suppose as like many have said a lot of guys actually enjoy it.
Exactly. Itās not gross at all, most men would give their right arm to get their face in between the knicker lace. if theyāre one of the rare few that donāt like it, they not for me. Donāt settle for a life without it. Even with my ex husband I got it every single time before penetration.
My friend has asked me on a date. I've accepted, and I'm trying not to overthink it. My worry is I don't want things to mess up and we lose the friendship (we've been friends for 11ish years)
Also, a guy I fucked years ago (we fancied each other but the sex wasn't great tbh) from my old job, randomly got into contact with me tonight and we're gonna go for lunch tomorrow during lunch break.
Also, a guy I fucked years ago (we fancied each other but the sex wasn't great tbh) from my old job, randomly got into contact with me tonight and we're gonna go for lunch tomorrow during lunch break.
Good luck. I have a similar thing with a friend. I canāt work out if weāre not together because weāre ultimately unsuitable or if itās because I have been conditioned to fancy inappropriate men so canāt get excited about someone who would be āgoodā for me.
Iām going on a random lunchtime dog walk with a bloke off Bumble on Tuesday. Report back guys!
Btw, I did once shag my friend and it didnāt ruin the friendship. If anything weāre much closer because that tension is out of the way.
How do you respond when post-date a guy tells you that youāre the whole package and that heās surprised youāre still single?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
"Thank you, I'm just taking my time to find someone worth it"
That is a great response!
that feels like the most subtle of negs to me but I think Iām just jaded. I donāt like the implication that being single is a fault/you had no choice in the matter.
Iād just say āyea but my companyās the best soā¦ā
I had my postponed first date with the guy I was supposed to go out with on Monday yesterday. We both live in the same apartment building which I was already aware of, but when we were sat talking we figured out he lives in the flat directly opposite me 
Sooo weird how I have never seen him before! Was equally as strange when the date ended and we were up the lift and down the corridor together. He was really nice though, we've said we'll go out again
Sooo weird how I have never seen him before! Was equally as strange when the date ended and we were up the lift and down the corridor together. He was really nice though, we've said we'll go out againDitto - Thanks @Thank(space)you !!That is a great response!
So I messaged my lunch date (loose term of the word) at 1 asking where he was. He messaged saying he's had to deal with a case @ work (he's not working today) I just said OK and now I'm enjoying my lunch. Girls gotta eat and I'm genuinely not bothered about it, which is definitely a sign of progress. I know I've not done anything wrong and he's not worth the time
Is it bad manners/seen as weird to ask to add someone on Instagram before actually meeting IRL? Guy from one of the apps is being quite forthcoming with trying to arrange a date (only matched at the weekend). Seems ātoo good to be trueā. I am worried itās a catfish or worse someone that will kidnap me 
Of course Iād only meet in a public place etc etc
Of course Iād only meet in a public place etc etcMost of the men I've slept with recently have been obsessed with giving oral. I'm not fussed about it really, I'd rather give than receive but if they want to, then crack on.
Very recently I was with a guy and he wasn't even interested in penetrative sex, he just wanted to get me off. It was oddly anxiety inducing that he cared so much
.I must have heard this 1000 times
I would take it with a pinch of salt after a first date or in the talking stage. They are often full of it in the early days.I was single because I couldnāt be arsed to give them the time of day which they would soon find out
He might think youāre a catfish and want to see you IRL / not waste time chattingIs it bad manners/seen as weird to ask to add someone on Instagram before actually meeting IRL? Guy from one of the apps is being quite forthcoming with trying to arrange a date (only matched at the weekend). Seems ātoo good to be trueā. I am worried itās a catfish or worse someone that will kidnap me
True but Iām average looking and he looks like a model
so thatās why Iām suspecting something is offWe are attracted to who we are attracted to. You may be 'average looking' to one person but to another you are massively attractive.True but Iām average looking and he looks like a model
And average looking can be and is attractive.
I feel like discussing what average looking even means. Nobody is really ugly.
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