A bit of space from my "lovely but is there chemistry?" guy and I do miss him. I'm completely not used to someone being reliable, consistent and considerate.
I always wear red lipstick, and on one of our dates he'd bought me a red lipstick as a gift. He'd asked in the shop for a lipstick that doesn't transfer and showed the assistant a photo of me to see what would suit me. I didn't know if it was weird at the time, but being the way he is, it seems genuinely sweet. Also its a 10/10 lipstick
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He also dragged me out of the pub for a "walk" and we ended up at a reservoir watching the most beautiful sunset with all the swans swimming next to us. It was lovely.
The week before payday I mentioned I couldn't really do anything and he told me not to worry, that he'd pick me up from work and take me out for something to eat, which was also lovely.
He also got me a ticket to see something at the theatre that's a combination of both our interests and it was really good. I think I'm just writing this down because actually, so far he's been really proactive and thoughtful.
We've had four dates, all out and about doing stuff, and I've asked if he wants to do something low-key where I'll cook and he can pick a film and we can see how we are just being quiet and chilling together. I also haven't slept with him and usually I'm a bit of a sex pest
(consensually of course) and it's actually a nice change if a bit anxiety inducing.
Even if it doesn't work out at least its like... a surprising revelation that there are actually decent men who make the effort out there?