I would say she probably feels jealous of you and very insecure. As hard as it is, stop trusting her. If you feel comfortable to do so, call her out on it privately.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel tit about it all now
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Ew, how old is she? 17? No, sorry, even teenagers have more respect for their friends than this gal.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel tit about it all now
I'm sorry. I second the above advice, stop trusting her. I would ignore her existence outside of the confines of working together from now on. Polite but uninterested.
I'm nothing special so I don't see why she would be jealous of me 🥲
She's 24 and I'm 30.. weirdly months ago when I first met him I had a dream that we were at work and he asked her out in front of me and she agreed
I mentioned this dream to her and she was like of course I wouldn't do that! Now if only I can dream about the winning lottery numbers seeing as my dreams are coming true
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I'm actually reading this with tears in my eyes because this is me too
Hard lesson to learn loving yourself!! I’m sure there are plenty of things you special at don’t put yourself down
Any yes any hints on lottery dreaming always appreciated
Anyone got any grand plans this weekend dating wise?!
No but I was tempted to download Bumble again. Although I don't particularly want to meet anyone longterm, I miss the buzz of chatting to someone new and the excitement of a first date.
I'm going to hold off until the 1st of Nov
ok well the 1st isnt too far awayNo but I was tempted to download Bumble again. Although I don't particularly want to meet anyone longterm, I miss the buzz of chatting to someone new and the excitement of a first date.
I'm going to hold off until the 1st of Nov
you can start winter off / end autumn with a new bumble spree haha.I would tell her you're going on a date with someone who’s knocked you off your feet and laugh at her.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel tit about it all now
I’d say there are things you can do that are low cost if you want to spend time with more people and possibly grow your circle of friends.
Meet up apps, FB events, an evening class - things run by a local council are often low cost. You could consider volunteering if you have the time - look at a time commitment and location that suits you.
The companionship and physical relationship part is harder to answer! You have to remember that dating can be expensive and there is no guarantee you’ll meet someone who can give up all their free time to keep you company and certainly not in the early stages. I’m not sure the age range of the men you’re looking for but if they have young kids, for example, you’ll likely be lower down on the priority list.
I tried a FWB thing a couple of times but it weirdly made me feel more lonely (and gave an insight into what I was missing), and I’m not sure they ever work that successfully as someone often car hes
I wouldn’t say you shouldn’t date, but I think you’ve come to the conclusion that you need to process more some of the things that have happened to you.
I do wish you good luck with it all x
I'm planning on asking my guy if he wants to go for a hike on Sunday
Arggghh so I give in and downloaded Bumble again.
Waste of time. Not one potential match. There was one hot guy who was in an open marriage
Waste of time. Not one potential match. There was one hot guy who was in an open marriage
I hate bumble. Hate talking first!Arggghh so I give in and downloaded Bumble again.
Waste of time. Not one potential match. There was one hot guy who was in an open marriage
I am considering downloading tinder again but I don't want anything besides chatting (no time and intend to move away next year) so I don't know if it's worth it
That sounds lovely! I love a good hike, especially with a guy.I'm planning on asking my guy if he wants to go for a hike on Sunday
Off for a day trip to a different city tomorrow for an explore and dinner
You've answered your own question there. Take the pressure off yourself and yes I harp on about taking time to discover you but its honestly the best thing we can all do.
Thank you for the reply but it really isn’t that deep. I don’t need time to discover me cause I already know me and am quite selfish in that respect. There is no pressure cause I don’t care either way. I don’t want a relationship, validation, company or anything like that. Sometimes i just like re-join for fun. I just don’t know if can be arsed and usually will for 3 days then delete it when I cba to keep up a convo againYou've answered your own question there. Take the pressure off yourself and yes I harp on about taking time to discover you but its honestly the best thing we can all do.
Hell more women need to be selfish. We are like wired to put others first at our detriment so I'm all for the selfish times lol yeah if you can't be bothered then don't waste energy on it. Put that into something else. For me I'm going to the seaside this weekend - I know it won't be warm but I have the urge to just feel the sea air and sand/hear the sea and have some childhood fun in the arcades!
Latest Bumble update, I matched with one person, the best of a bad bunch. And he deleted me after I sent him a messaged. Brutal start
What's this Fab website you're all talking about ???
What's this Fab website you're all talking about ???
Yeah I think women are taught that they are somehow damaged and broken if they don’t have a partner. I have many friends who can’t be without relationships and I have really learned from that. I enjoy my own company too much
Sounds lovely! I love the seaside! I am working tonight but plan to lay on the sofa in front of Netflix and eat cookies with my dog (dog isn’t having the cookies)
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