Dating after lockdown #12 It’s all got a bit dark

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Please don’t ruin your own thread with petty in-fighting. When advice is asked for and offered - take it for what it is, engage the humour button and don’t take it to heart.
 
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I'm still engaging in the threads. Addicted to every post I read. Love the fun and naughty stories.

I have nothing else to bring/follow up from my previous posts but can I say that dating websites are a lot of work. I was really hoping they would be fun.
 
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New thread, new start.

Please don’t ruin your own thread with petty in-fighting. When advice is asked for and offered - take it for what it is, engage the humour button and don’t take it to heart.
Thank you parking myself here xx
 
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I deleted Tinder yesterday so have no clue what I’m doing here 😂

I do like the deeper stuff that gets talked about on here though. It’s worthwhile x
 
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You know when Chris Hughes asked if he should rap on Love Island, to lighten the mood? We need that.
 
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Oh no, now nobody can see my update which I left on the previous thread. Can I copy it across?

I also miss the fun tagline this thread usually has 😭

My little update:
One of the guys I have dated asked me for a second date. He suggested Friday, to go for a walk again and then inside. I am not sure if I want to do this as I don't fancy him. Also, he was one of those who didn't treat me on the first date. We walked for an hour, then sat outside somewhere for a beer that we ordered at the bar. We both fumbled for cash, I was quicker so I paid and he asked if I had change if he gave me a fiver (which would have paid for his share). I said he was invited. It is not a big thing, but somehow it is for me? Maybe an annoying quirk I have?

Another one has also sent me messages, he is currently away with his parents and sent me 17 (!!) pictures from their holiday. I didn't look at them 🙈 I hardly know him and I don't know his parents, so why send me so many pictures? I don't fancy him either. I am a lost cause 😩
 
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Oh no, now nobody can see my update which I left on the previous thread. Can I copy it across?

I also miss the fun tagline this thread usually has 😭

My little update:
One of the guys I have dated asked me for a second date. He suggested Friday, to go for a walk again and then inside. I am not sure if I want to do this as I don't fancy him. Also, he was one of those who didn't treat me on the first date. We walked for an hour, then sat outside somewhere for a beer that we ordered at the bar. We both fumbled for cash, I was quicker so I paid and he asked if I had change if he gave me a fiver (which would have paid for his share). I said he was invited. It is not a big thing, but somehow it is for me? Maybe an annoying quirk I have?

Another one has also sent me messages, he is currently away with his parents and sent me 17 (!!) pictures from their holiday. I didn't look at them 🙈 I hardly know him and I don't know his parents, so why send me so many pictures? I don't fancy him either. I am a lost cause 😩
maybe screenshot and repost or copy the text and repost so we can give you advice xx
 
I've been getting along great with a guy I matched with on tinder and was supposed to be third date on the weekend but I'm seeing him tonight!

I feel so comfortable around him. I've been through some heavy tit in my life, and although I've not told him yet as it's a little soon for me, I also know when I'm ready I can do.

He's so kind and attentive, but also can make me laugh with some cheeky banter.

I feel so lucky 😍 I know it's early and all that, but please don't kill my excited vibe by telling me so 😂
 
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Me: deletes tinder and all other dating apps and swears is okay without anyone
Me: goes to a birthday party
Me: i have been dating this guy for a week and we have pretty much moved in together

And I have never felt as amazing and in love but I just WTH, am I in a movie? What is this?
 
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Oh no, now nobody can see my update which I left on the previous thread. Can I copy it across?

I also miss the fun tagline this thread usually has 😭

My little update:
One of the guys I have dated asked me for a second date. He suggested Friday, to go for a walk again and then inside. I am not sure if I want to do this as I don't fancy him. Also, he was one of those who didn't treat me on the first date. We walked for an hour, then sat outside somewhere for a beer that we ordered at the bar. We both fumbled for cash, I was quicker so I paid and he asked if I had change if he gave me a fiver (which would have paid for his share). I said he was invited. It is not a big thing, but somehow it is for me? Maybe an annoying quirk I have?

Another one has also sent me messages, he is currently away with his parents and sent me 17 (!!) pictures from their holiday. I didn't look at them 🙈 I hardly know him and I don't know his parents, so why send me so many pictures? I don't fancy him either. I am a lost cause 😩
You're not a lost cause- you just didn't click with this guy. Politely decline and say you don't see this going any further. No point wasting anyone's time.
 
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Also throwing it out there now

If I see any negativity on here I'm just gonna segue the conversation past it and completely ignore it 🤣
 
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I've been getting along great with a guy I matched with on tinder and was supposed to be third date on the weekend but I'm seeing him tonight!

I feel so comfortable around him. I've been through some heavy tit in my life, and although I've not told him yet as it's a little soon for me, I also know when I'm ready I can do.

He's so kind and attentive, but also can make me laugh with some cheeky banter.

I feel so lucky 😍 I know it's early and all that, but please don't kill my excited vibe by telling me so 😂
Aw good luck! This sounds amazing. Just do and say whatever you’re comfortable with.
 
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