Hes not a therapist, we see what you're saying.
Why do you think everything takes 4 years?
Qualified CB Coach? In 4 weeks? Whos the governing body? Who approved it as a course?
Im going to be supercilious here. Only half apologies for it.Sorry to hear that.
The thing is using the word trauma like he does is not helpful. He has no understanding on mental health and therapy, this is just my opinion, but I'm not even convinced he has had any himself, certainly not for any significant amount of time. Sad events in someones life can trigger bad mental health. Losing a horse sounds sad, but perhaps not traumatic. But, if that horse was your sanctury (as riding alone with a horse often is) and you cared for them their whole life and that was part of your routine, then being without that is very hard to deal with and could cause someone to experience bad mental health so this woman is right to identify that as a reason. His list of experiences is very sad - I just don't believe half of them. His timelines don't make sense - there is so much evidence out there, because he is constantly videoing himself and loves the sound of his own voice, to dispute most of it.
Poor girl. I can only imagine the relief her parents have now.
He has a personality disorder and is a drug addict.
EVERYTHING is traumatic when you're the eternal victim.
Every scenario hes involved he doesnt like in is externalised and then classified as trauma.
Every scenario he does like is absolutely his desire and capability.
Its not that he's not well. This is who he is. He can get better at managing himself but not whilst he believes this and continues to collect victims to enable his behaviour.
He deserves very little empathy. Hes the epitome of a bleep. He lies, he cons, he gaslights, he reworks history, he abused, he manipulates, he commits all the acts he claims are done to him but its different (back to scenarios).
Hes not "refreshing" hes the most poisonous type of person in society.
So, think about this for a sec. A woman spoke to him about weight loss. She doesn't perceive she has trauma. He IMPLANTS trauma into her life and now tells her she needs therapy for it. But hes not a therapist but he'll take your money. The ethics on this the rats are walking on. In a 1-1 monthly coaching call lasting 24 minutes hes done more than "hours of therapy", was she in therapy? What for? He doesnt need "4 years" training he just needs 24 mins to work someone out. As others have said, he will have spoke for 21 mins of that.Again, I call BS. 'The client didn't know she had trauma' but when he dived in he found out she'd suffered a miscarriage. I am pretty sure she would have been well aware of what a traumatic time that was for her and her partner without you pointing it out like some sort of magic genie
False memory, memory implantation, of.course he'd "argue" thats impossible having never born testimony to anything without blocking them.
His UsPExactly! It’s like he’s got to find a reason that you’re fat, it can’t be anything simple because he can’t validate himself without there being trauma involved that he can compare and solve.
You can refer to yourself and your own life but it has limits for sure.that’s what I learned while going to psychologist that they never should refer to there on life and experience. Me is a blank slate not too be compared to thetherapist life. And you can never know how anyone else reacts to something that’s happened in someone’s life.
My little sister ended her life 10 years ago. We found out that she had been feeling bad for 10 years after. I was the one struggling with mental health not knowing she was doing that bad. I am angry and sad about my sister, but do now understand why she did what she did. I will miss her forever
glad that I never told that to David so it would not have been all about him….
My mom found my sister hung her self and seen how she has and was feeling after I could never do that to her again no matter how bad I am feeling. Sorry for saying all this but I no longer am staying quiet about suicidal. We need to not make it bad to talk about
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