yeah, there are a couple of families with triplets where the contrast between how they are being brought up, with permission to be themselves as three individual people, is striking in comparison with the Galbally's and "the triplets" as a unit, even giving them all identical birthday presents at the age of five, the only difference being the colour - and obvs their colours assigned to them by Charlotte, not their OWN favourite colour. they seem to go out of their way to prevent the girls developing their own indenties and discover their own interests, likes and dislikes - they all have to do the exact same hobbies and play with the same toys etc. with Lottie especially being so malnourished and underweight, she does a hell of a lot of activities, when in reality, the girls likely all prefer certain hobbies to others, so whilst swimming is important, they don't all necessarily need to go gymnastics and dance and whatever else, they could do different hobbies based on their own preferences, just as Henry does his own thing! i wish they would get over forcing the girls to present themselves as a matching set. the are three separate people who should be allowed to have their own interests, and favourite colours and different clothes, toys etc based in their OWN likes.