I dunno what you miss about sleeping on a sofa, not getting any physical contact with your partner, hearing about how much she loves women & eating her shite dinners. Wiping her arse because she poos herself? Having the kids locked in the house so they are acting up when you come home from work? Living in a house that didn't have hot water for about a year. The list is endless. I can guarantee Aaron is probably 100% more happier and probably enjoys all 3 of the boys more because he can do things with them all. Will be sad only having them on weekends but at least he can do stuff with them and not deal with them smashing and breaking things all the time because they have no stimulation to keep their wee minds and bodies busy. He's the one winning here.