@ChampagneBox I haven't read all the posts yet so sorry if I repeat anyone but it really sounds like your boyfriend wants you to compromise by accepting that he doesn't want to get married, but is still pushing you to do what he wants in the future, which is the kids. This is not only very unfair but also is going to cause resentment in the future. Also, I really don't understand the 'having kids because you're bored' thing. It sounds like one thing we all share on this thread is that we like our lives how they are and don't want to change our lifestyles to accommodate a child, which is the opposite of being 'bored'. I also think having a child because you're bored is an extremely bad reason. I haven't seen how old you are but your boyfriend sounds like he needs to grow up.