I’m genuinely intrigued as to why and how there has been such a shift in the way people see and treat children?
-children are so worshipped these days, they get handmade cakes, balloon arches, stacks of gifts, holidays and big days out for all birthdays.
-Parents are always so focused on meeting their children’s needs and making their child is happy all the time, they don’t allow their children to be disappointed.
-it’s all so focused on giving their children the world, theatre trips, luxury holidays, expensive days out etc
-in schools, when child misbehaves on the regular, instead of being punished, the teachers are kind and understanding and they bend over backwards to give the child what they want and they give them special treatment…
-out and about, kids are just misbehaving, climbing things they shouldn’t and no one seems to say a thing?
I just don’t get it. I was born in 95 and I was never the centre of attention, never allowed to do what I wanted and I never felt like my feelings were the most important thing. I got an Asda cake and a tea party for my birthday, I was made to be seen and not heard in public and if I misbehaved I got took home for a smack and when I was bad at school, the teachers despised me and punished me heavily for it.
the world has gone mad. I know this isn’t all kids, but there’s so many kids treated like this now.