I mean he doesn’t pressure me, and to be honest i think there’s a chance we wouldn’t get married even if we had kids, he says he doesn’t believe in it full stop, so i might have not worded it right, it’s not as black and white as ‘no kids? No marriage’ but he’s seen his cousins have two kids
then get married, and they only got married to all have the same surname as the kids, and they’re the example he uses when we talk about it. His parents are married, but his other cousins all have kids but aren’t married so I think he looks to them as an example.
I make him sound awful through what I write here, he’s not a bad person really
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I just think he’s naive, he’s early 30s but I’m the first serious girlfriend/one hes lived with.
he hasn’t outright said ‘I’m bored, let’s have kids’, I might have worded it wrong, but i just think he’s just in the school of thought along with ‘who’ll look after you when you’re old?’ Just quite old fashioned ideas