He’s not the only one who would be missing out on something, I really really want to get married, to me that’s more important than kids and that is what I imagine doing rather than having kids, but he doesn’t want to get married
So I’m also missing out on something but I’ve decided I can live with not getting married. So if he did decide that kids were non negotiable then I’d also be angry and upset from that point of view that I’ve decided to stay with him knowing I might never get married, but he’d be leaving because I don’t want kids. Hmm maybe we really shouldn’t be together
we’ve survived lockdown, but I’ve really been thinking about the big stuff recently, I feel like I’m changing and our relationship is changing too which isn’t necessarily a bad thing but why is life so complicated??