I’ve had two miscarriages, first one I had an internal scan at 5 weeks baby looked fine but too early to show heartbeat and then miscarried the next day, there wasn’t much blood as it came out fully formed (sorry for tmi) I had no bleeding after and went out shopping two days later. Second one I was further along and started bleeding, went for a private scan and all was fine heartbeat was fine and then two days later miscarried again, bled a lot more this time but was up and about the next day, back to work two days after. I’m not saying I agree or disagree with anyone but I think it’s important to know that miscarriages are so different for everyone. Apart from my first initial trip to epu for my first scan after slight bleeding I never went back for either miscarriage, with the first one it was very obvious it had all passed through as was fully formed and with second one I was just told if bleeding is longer than 3 weeks (not intense bleeding of course just like period) or I continued to keep passing tissue then I would have to be checked. I actually couldn’t believe how little they actually do to check/help, I called the drs the day after my first one and asked if I needed to be checked over and they said no. I think everyone deals with these things differently, Cassy doesn’t seem the type to spend days crying in bed about anything so it doesn’t surprise me that she was out and about straight away if it did happen. I put on a very brave face during and after both my miscarriages, I went to a friends house for a bbq the day I noticed bleeding on my second one because I just didn’t want to believe it was happening. It’s the worst thing in the world I’ve ever been through and wouldn’t wish it upon anyone so it’s so hard to predict how people will act/cope after.