I really don't think there's anything wrong with working AND being a mum to a young baby. Most mums (and/or dads) simply can't stay home. And I don't want to assume what Carrie and Joels finances look like, but I doubt the tour is happening because they'll be broke otherwise. So all this talk of "I was always sooooo career focused, but now I'm soooo excited to finally be a mother" ... what was the point if she's going to do both anyways? (And again, no shame in it. Women don't have to become full time mum & housewives.) But with Carrie it's always one extrem, always one that fits the current narrative, and as soon as the narrative changes, it's like she never said it. I bet you there will be lots and lots of "working mum" and "we don't have to sacrifice our career" talk from her next year.