I know we’ve moved away from the Q&A but I am still in complete shock that she said this??
“Would we have had that same connection when we first met 8 years ago? I’m not so sure! I think we've both had experiences in relationships that have put us in a position that makes us way more open to receiving the love the other person gives us and way more appreciative of it, too.”
Does this not read like she’s saying ‘the only reason Joel and I are together is because I was so devastated that Oliver left me and was desperate to get with the first man who showed me any affection. I wasn’t remotely interested in him 8 years ago and we wouldn’t have gotten together because I’d have still been pursuing attractive (but emotionally unavailable) men.’ Because that’s not very ‘I love you in every universe’ of you, Carrie
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