If she actually marries him now, that is scary. Legally and financially tying herself to a guy she just started seeing (and just started hanging out with one-on-one, because they hadn't done that in those 8 years of friendship!) a few months after she (self-admittedly) had a huge nervous breakdown, had her heart broken, which had a horrible effect on her self esteem seems SO dangerous and unhealthy. That is not a foundation for a good marriage?!
And it's like, obviously it's been clear all along that she's desperate to be in a relationship and married... but after her breakup with Oliver I thought, surely she wouldn't actually jump straight into a new relationship with the clingiest guy she can find, and then rush into marriage so she can tick that box by 30? But no. It looks like she actually would.
Also totally agree with everyone saying it would be really gross of Joel to get engaged to her now. If you love and care about someone you wouldn't let them make a major decision like that just a few months out of a horrible breakdown. God. You can't tell me he's not just exploiting her mental fragility to lock her down as quickly as possible.
I know everyone has to learn their life lessons on their own time. But you'd think she's been through enough unhealthy relationships to recognize one by now?
I'm just scared for her. Never thought when I started watching her youtube videos ten years ago things would ever get this dark for her.