Alice_Taylorx
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Personally, I find it tacky to discuss her weight. It makes this place feel more like a cheap tabloid magazine and takes away the legitimacy of other points we bring up that are rooted in more valid criticisms. Her weight is fine imo and it shouldn't matter either way. I'm skinny myself but also think it's one of those things that just make anyone else who reads here feel like crap if they also aren't the same weight they were 10 years ago.
I dunno...things like her gaudy fashion senses are choices that she makes every day, but things like losing weight are fucking difficult and take a long time and isn't something you can choose to change when you wake up in the morning or over the weekend, unlike her 50 year old auntie dresses that she puts on everyday or her bright orange dye that she must be choosing to get touched up regularly.
It's bizarre but sometimes this site feels like we're filling in the gaps that she doesn't get from having any close friendships or people that aren't just "Yes men". She doesn't have any real girlfriends who can pull her aside and go "girl, I know you wanna be quirky but the baggy floor length garishly-patterned clothing that hides your figure is just not working for you" so we say it here in the hopes that maybe she'll take it on board for her own benefit. (Or stuff like...maybe don't post your fucking exact route to work and the outside of your house with specific identifying decorations and outline when you'll be on holiday when you've had issues with stalking in the past, but that's a separate issue). But I'd never tell someone to lose weight...it's a step too personal. It's one thing to discuss her unhealthy habits since she doesn't make an effort to really hide those, but who's to say she wouldn't be the weight that she is even if she was super healthy due to her genetics or a variety of factors that are outside of her control. We really don't know and it's just not necessary.
The most staged, unromantic and dispassionate kiss I’ve seen since Michael kissed Oscar in The Office….
As far as finances go, he went to an expensive school, so parents do have money- not that it means joel has money. He’s their only child, and they definitely funded drama school, classes etc and I’m sure they’d help out with deposits. However, the area he is from is much cheaper than london.
It is something that would be put in a whatsapp group I’m in, but as yet, no one has said he’s engaged.
