I've put a wee bit of thought into this, and I might be completely off the mark here and please do tell me if it is the case (I wont cry trolls!). Does she actually know what hardship is, as in, what has she actually experienced?
Is she aware of a tough life? Of the people who end up in a women's refuge due to family agression, who fall victim to crime, end up homeless through no fault of their own. Or families with divorced parents, kids with extra needs, the ones who end up in foodbanks. The families who get touched by cancer, alcohol or suicide. I know you dont have to experience them to know about these things, and the list is far from endless.
Tbh, how many of us can say that life has been a bit shit or tough over the years? And i dont just mean by not being able to go to Primark. God by the time I was 20, i thought I'd used up all my bad luck, but shit happens. I powered on through and now I'm more fortunate, i give back at every opportunity. It might be christmas meals for dogs (pets at home pulled my heart strings) or emptying change into a bucket, but we all do it.
This is where i might be wrong, but other than being dumped countless times and waiting an excruciatingly long time to be kissed, what has been her issue? I know health hasnt been great, but the support was always there for her. Shes so incredibly lucky with what she has, that it makes it even harder to swallow when she is acting as if her world is caving in.
Some of the comments on her posts from her followers are utterly heartbreaking, especially on the latest poor me post. She's ignored replying to the ones genuinely suffering, and just done her token replies on the ones licking her arse. Thats a bitter pill to swallow, and god it makes it hard to even hate watch her right now. If you're gonna be an influencer, look after the ones who reach out to you, they've reached out for a reason.
The shallowness of it all is ridiculous, she needs to get out of her insular bubble and experience real life. Then she will know how times are hard.