Brummy Mummy #10 Give the girl a break she’s clearly cooking dem waffles over candle flame

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Oh here we go...sat in her car doing stories about a message that has upset her..just like all the other vloggers who’ve done a ‘poor me’ rant 🙄

This moan is entitled relatable. She’s obviously just done the school run (in the car..why does she moan about it raining if they’re not walking?) then got back in the car and checked her DM’s which is bizarre as she’s told us her Manager checks them? 🤔

Someone sent her a message saying her having private therapy is not relatable so she says she can’t please all of her followers and if they don’t like it unfollow!

She says that she went to the Dr about her mental health and even phoned the Samaritans yet in a vlog about going to the Dr the Dr told her to take some vitamins! He never told her she was depressed or had mental health problems. That was a bandwagon she jumped on and her story keeps getting exaggerated. She originally paid for private therapy to help her stop being an embarrassment at functions. It was all to help her gain more work..AD’s etc as certain brands wouldn’t work with her.

So she went from that reason to the trolls and this thread making her have a breakdown fully clothed in the shower blah, blah, blah.

She’s an insult to people who suffer real mental health problems 😡
She is and it's really hit a nerve with me today
 
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The thing that has got me is when she wrote your wouldn't ignore a broken arm so don't ignore a broken mind.

So is my mind broken because I have mental health? am I broken? No I don't think I am yes I have mental health but I am far from broken how the hell does she think that would help someone it would make someone feel worse.
 
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She’s just copying what she reads elsewhere. Because she’s jumped on the MH bandwagon and doesn’t actually have MH problems.

I remember when people used to say they were depressed. No they weren’t depressed they were just feeling a bit low or having a bad day.

Nowadays it’s the same apart from instead of saying depressed they say they’re suffering from MH problems.

I am in no way including people with ACTUAL MH problems in this post. My point is that nearly every blogger I come across and every Z lister I read about has said they have MH problems. I’m sorry but I just don’t believe them. It’s a bandwagon and they’re all jumping on it for attention.
 
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I personally can't stand the "it's ok not to be ok" not the actual message, just the saying. Probably because they all say it or use it as a hashtag.
 
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The thing that has got me is when she wrote your wouldn't ignore a broken arm so don't ignore a broken mind.

So is my mind broken because I have mental health? am I broken? No I don't think I am yes I have mental health but I am far from broken how the hell does she think that would help someone it would make someone feel worse.
This was the 1st thing I thought too!
 
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My point is that nearly every blogger I come across and every Z lister I read about has said they have MH problems. I’m sorry but I just don’t believe them. It’s a bandwagon and they’re all jumping on it for attention.
The issue I have is they all jump on a bandwagon and say their MH is suffering, then cry trolls, but not one of them actually stands up and says “this isn’t good for my MH so I’m leaving social media”. If their career choice really was so damaging they would leave it. But they don’t. When they’re apparently at their lowest, the very next post on Instagram will be that they’re “living their best lives” and a #ad (I realise people hide MH issues, but I personally feel if they were hiding their issues they wouldn’t do a woe is me post at all and nobody would know).
 
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The issue I have is they all jump on a bandwagon and say their MH is suffering, then cry trolls, but not one of them actually stands up and says “this isn’t good for my MH so I’m leaving social media”. If their career choice really was so damaging they would leave it. But they don’t. When they’re apparently at their lowest, the very next post on Instagram will be that they’re “living their best lives” and a #ad (I realise people hide MH issues, but I personally feel if they were hiding their issues they wouldn’t do a woe is me post at all and nobody would know).
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I know MH problems can be hidden but she talks about how bad she felt and how low she was yet still managed to post on her grid every single day plus do stories looking and sounding fine plus the bloody takeaway dance 🙄

If she felt as bad as she says why didn’t she step back for a few days or stop vlogging twice a week? It’s bullshit.
 
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BrummyMummy#11 Fake mental health; is all about the wealth, her life is all lies; her minions are hypnotised!
 
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Is world mental health day today so be prepared for them all jumping on the bandwagon. I completely agree that the profile of MH need to be raised and the shame taken away but not by social media people who haven’t actually got a clue.

Also she said the gp told her to take vitamins for her pmt rages not depression.
 
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Is world mental health day today so be prepared for them all jumping on the bandwagon. I completely agree that the profile of MH need to be raised and the shame taken away but not by social media people who haven’t actually got a clue.

Also she said the gp told her to take vitamins for her pmt rages not depression.
I actually think they do more harm than good. Comparing your life to their highlight reel showing off their 6th Disney holiday this year can be harmful for those with good mental health, let alone those who are suffering! And imagine what it must be like for those people who are struggling to get out of bed in the morning to see these twits throwing around mental illness like it is some kind of sponsored post while they carry on like Brummy; shopping, traveling, stripping off, gyrating around with a bag of prawn crackers. What an absolute bleeping insult.
 
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I've not posted on here for a while,,,,,, but her Insta Stories from earlier sat in her car - firstly Babs, you are a condescending cow who has no idea what you're talking about. Somebody has reached out to you, saying that they don't find it relatable that you've just "chosen" to pay for therapy. This person may have followed you for ages, may have found your MH journey helpful up til now (although I can't think why) they may be at their wits end with no help available to them and what do you tell her to do????? Unfollow you! Well duck me if that's isn't just the biggest laziest most arrogent response you spiteful idiot. You chose to jump on the MH bandwagon, now stand up and take some bleeping responsibility for the fact that some of your followers may need help.
 
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Amazing how someone who doesn't check their messages checks them the second she is back in the car after dropping the kids off!
 
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“I don’t want anyone to leave my social media feeling sad or disappointed”. What a joke! I guess then based on past performances:

  • Having people feel victimised after her venting on Instastories about someone not being a good egg because they marginally disagree with her is ok;
  • Having followers verbally attack someone who doesn’t praise her in every way, shape and form is ok;
  • Removing people’s right to reply in order to fit a narrative of “poor victim” is ok;
  • Having people feel like crap because of constantly pushing this “I’m just a normal Mum on a part time teacher’s wage” persona, who then goes for the 5th holiday in a year is ok;
  • Constantly belittling your husband for likes is ok;
  • Crying troll at the mere mention that someone disagrees with her is ok;
  • Ignoring messages and blocking people trying to make you aware images of your children are being used on porn sites rather than addressing the issue is ok;
  • Outright lying is ok.
You’re right babs, you don’t have to be all things to all people, but you could try just being a decent human being.
 
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I have been diagnosed with PTSD clinical depression and severe anxiety and I can honestly say NOT ONE PERSON in my ‘real life’ has a clue x
 
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It annoys me the way she bigs herself up for raising money for the Children’s Hospital. She charges extra on the mugs to cover the donation so her followers are donating, not her.

Bragging she’s in the local paper and her parents are proud 🙄.

She’ll be hoping for a CBE from the Queen next for her charitable work and raising mental health awareness 😜🙄
 

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What a nasty and vain attitude she has! So what you have made the local rag, a shame they don't know the full story of how you rip off your followers by adding extra to the price of the mugs and profit from them yourself. Didn't see you handing the profit over to the childrens hospital! Oh yes, your parents must be so proud! As bad as Meldrum going to the food bank empty handed! As for the MH, if you spoke to your GP about it and they were at all concerned, why weren't you referred by them for counselling? You can self refer to MIND. Sod all wrong with her but an inflated ego!!
 
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It annoys me the way she bigs herself up for raising money for the Children’s Hospital. She charges extra on the mugs to cover the donation so her followers are donating, not her.

Bragging she’s in the local paper and her parents are proud 🙄.

She’ll be hoping for a CBE from the Queen next for her charitable work and raising mental health awareness 😜🙄
she’s working towards a Damehood
 
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👍 she should be bigging up her followers for all their donations.

Also, do you remember she added cost onto the mugs as she had someone else packing them? And then they were posted out later than promised (after she came back off hols).
 
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Because she hasn't got enough to say and isn't creative enough to generate the content. She almost felt excitable announcing Erin's bug because something out of the ordinary had happened. Tag me in pictures of your sick buckets though? 🙄
Same as jumping on every bandwagon going and not really doing any of them well. She's desperate to find a niche and it is NOT happening for her!
 
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Same as jumping on every bandwagon going and not really doing any of them well. She's desperate to find a niche and it is NOT happening for her!
The same with the running. Soon knocked that on the head. She gets out of breath walking up the stairs let alone running for 25 mins like she claimed to do. The "Best park" according to her, does a regular childrens 2k run that she could join in with Erin, but of course, people would see then that she doesn't actually run! Naa, easier to jump on the next band wagon of MH.
 
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