Im also working on this theory re BLABvATW:
What if Daphne pretty much caused the whole blow out? Hold on, bear with me.
BLAB certainly did all the stuff Daphne said they did. But...would Adam care if Daphne were not in the picture? Adam was homeschooled by bible thumpers in the middle of nowhere (not judging one way or another, just a fact) whose bestie/love interest/adopted lil sis is a openly pansexual sexworker significantly younger than he is. What Im trying to say is that Adam as we know him is not exactly what I would call "woke." Daphne seems to be very incensed about terms like "lesbian bleep" and tbh, it seems like a phrase ATW has probably used at least once in his er...punk life. Is it possible that after this incident and others like it, Daphne was the one who threw down the ultimatum. Its them or me. And that is why he is quite sure that he will never speak with BLAB again. This is also why Daphne is fully supporting whatever he is trying to do with that lame statement. She has what she wants which is proof he will pick her over them. Not saying he shouldnt or should or anything just saying...maybe?