I can’t actually believe I forgot this one.. we moved away to be closer to my family, plus more affordable housing, better job prospects, and generally a better quality of life. FIL often says to my husband, out of my earshot, that if we were to move back they’d help financially with childcare. Just to be clear, they’re not offering to look after our baby, they’re offering to pay for him to go to nursery, but only if we uproot our lives/jobs and go back to their town