God where do I start with my MIL. Self centred, manipulative, rude and overbearing. She told me after our first daughter was stillborn that we shouldn’t think about another until I’d found out what I’d ‘done to cause it.’ Told us she was disappointed when I fell pregnant again because I’d been selfish enough to risk putting HER through all the pain and heartache again. She still controls my partner, complains he doesn’t call enough then huffs and puffs when he does.
Never comes to visit us and our little one, we always have to go to her, then she complains she doesn’t see her enough. Was there constantly after my little girl was born, our first night home with her and she told FIL to fetch the car seat as she was taking her with her to let us get some rest and to feed her properly because I was failing at breastfeeding her. Rearranged LOs whole bedroom because she ‘didn’t like how I’d done things.’
She loves to tell my partner that the only reason me and her don’t get along is because I’m trying to push them apart. Constantly throws tantrums alike to a toddler when she doesn’t get her way. Complains when we don’t get her birthday/Mother’s Day off work because we ‘don’t appreciate her any other day of the year.’
Complains about how much my parents see our little girl (they’ve always offered to be childcare when I went back to work) but told us she’s done raising kids now so we should never ask her to babysit.
This lockdown has been bliss being able to distance ourselves from them. How I wish it could last
Never comes to visit us and our little one, we always have to go to her, then she complains she doesn’t see her enough. Was there constantly after my little girl was born, our first night home with her and she told FIL to fetch the car seat as she was taking her with her to let us get some rest and to feed her properly because I was failing at breastfeeding her. Rearranged LOs whole bedroom because she ‘didn’t like how I’d done things.’
She loves to tell my partner that the only reason me and her don’t get along is because I’m trying to push them apart. Constantly throws tantrums alike to a toddler when she doesn’t get her way. Complains when we don’t get her birthday/Mother’s Day off work because we ‘don’t appreciate her any other day of the year.’
Complains about how much my parents see our little girl (they’ve always offered to be childcare when I went back to work) but told us she’s done raising kids now so we should never ask her to babysit.
This lockdown has been bliss being able to distance ourselves from them. How I wish it could last