Just saw this on the new AI scam page posted by Amy. I have seen this before and Val uses any excuse in the book to try and explain away all the things Jess won't do. Watch it if you can. She blames everyone but herself!!!
Here's a dose of hard reality that being a parent of an autistic child with various other mental ailments such as IDD....have to acknowledge.
The outside world is a chaotic place for EVERYONE...and we ( average people)are raised knowing how to navigate , notice the good and bad, make wise, informed decisions, be aware of danger, your surroundings, learn and abide the rules set to be a functioning participant in our community ...in society as a whole.
Some of these things are easier than others for the average child growing up into adulthood..being autistic, or having other mental " issues" can make this 100 times more difficult, perhaps even more imortant.
So as the parent it is our responsibility to ensure our autistic child is getting ALL the help, all the resources all the medical advancements and TEACH them for how ever long it takes HOW TO COPE, HOW TO FOLLOW RULES, LISTEN...and understand the outside rules.
Because if we don't ...what happens when strangers , cashiers, children, dogs, delivery people, the general population who doesn't KNOW our child come across them ....in public and our child..who is now a full grown adult, yells at them, hits them ( a child even) because they touched their cart, or accidentally bumped them....
In the last few years ( longer I'm sure) do you know how many police officers had to intervene a conflict with an autistic adult in a public setting?
Do you know how many of those conflicts ended....in death ?
Val is so busy playing the victim and bad mouthing every teacher, therapist , in-house care giver , nurse, doctor, dentist, hairdresser, bus driver ..because they misunderstand Jessica....rather than teach jessica how to listen, cope, TRY to cooperate , and that there are rules...and boundaries and CONSEQUENCES...she blames the world for not making exceptions for jessica.
That is not doing Jessica ANY favours ....In fact it puts her in constant danger, makes her unapproachable ,unlikable and very scary.
If a child in the mall accidentally bumped Jessica ...and jessica hauled off screaming head thrown back and hitting a small child...it would not go well for Jessica .
Even Val said one of the reasons she's in a wheelchair at Disney is because of she gets accidently bumped she gets violent.
Jessica gets violent often when ever she doesn't get HER way....so how can you unleash that into the public?
It's not up to the world to come to a stop to make Jessica happy.... It's up to Val to teach, prepare and provide the professional help Jessica requires to safely embark on the world.
Val refuses to do this as the narcissist victim she believes she is. So hiding her bessy away and blaming the world is her answer while scamming people online for her Disney vacations.