pokermom
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I totally agree Fairly Certain. When my son was born I was just 25 weeks along so he had a very long NICU stay. In our small town (about 600 people in city limits) had another mother with a baby in the NICU both a 2 hour drive away. She had donation jars up in all the businesses in town and I couldn’t understand why my parents absolutely refused to let anyone do that for us. We drove the 140 miles round trip 3 times a week and my husband and I stayed in a hotel every weekend to see him and be close to him. Over time this was quite expensive and my parents paid for all of it. I came to understand why. You Val need to learn this lesson. Take care of your own!! Don’t beg! It’s not a good look. I keep my circle very small. No one knows my business but we all know all of Val’s business and she can’t go back. What’s done is done. Sorry for the long post but it triggered so many memories I just had to share.About all the wishlists and begging for deck money, and camper money. I find it so hard to believe that Val’s family would condone this shameless grifting, especially Granddad and Nonnie. When I first found AI, it was full of such good information, both past and present. Of course now, we all know it’s just the same performances, coached and edited, doing the same things very poorly over and over, and no informative Q&A’s at all. I think the new page should be called, “watch us spend YOUR hard earned money”. Anyway, I first smelled a rat when the deck thing came up, actually shocked. Then just very shortly after, not nearly enough time to raise enough money, there were Nathan and Granddad building it. I thought, well thank goodness. They must have seen how awful the begging looked and thrown in the money and gotten it done. Don’t know if that was the case or not, but at least that ended. My whole point in this is to say that if Jess was my granddaughter and this business was going on, I’d be so far up my daughter’s a**, she wouldn’t know what hit her. No way I would support any of this. I won’t call Jessica names because she is absolutely not to blame. Just like any toddler (pretty damned smart) she has responded very well to the nurturing she has had all her life and it has created a person who is pretty obnoxious, spoiled and unlikeable.
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We’ll dang! I’ve went back on that live and listened and I never could hear the fart and now I can’t hear this whisper. But I know Jess farts like a horse all the time and she definitely wants Val all to herself. I would go so far as to say she hates Hannah most of the time.Val mentioned the garden on the live Thursday saying that the plants were looking not well...turning yellow! Listen dumb ass Val they are in pots and you are drowning them! That video that you let Jess water them that was WAY to much!!! No place for the water to drain so it kills them! I thought she was such a wonderful gardener....learned from your grandfather and father! Apparently you were not paying attention!!
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Very well said WallFly!! She just wants undivided attention! And while she was looking through the coloring books she would skip right over the puzzle pages and go to the next page with a picture on it and ask what is this!!!! So she does see more than they let on! Just like when she plays with monopoly money and keeps asking the color is this!!! But left on her own she has piles of matching colored "money"!
Did you catch her whisper to her mother on the live that when they get their new house that Hannah can't come???? Now that was interesting to me! Hannah tries way to hard to make us think she likes Jess but Jess could care less! She just wants Val all to herself! Sad, sad life and not joyful at all!!!
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