Yes...430/5am wake every day with mine up until they were 4. Absolutely nothing changed what time they woke up. Not bedtime, naps, feeds, food, running them ragged. Nothing. They also woke during the night until 2.5yo. Nothing worked to change that either. One day they just started sleeping through (some nights, then most nights). Hubby worked night shift, and we lived away from family. So I was the walking dead for a long time. I'm not complaining. It was absolutely worth it, but it was also completely impossible to have the kind of 'me time' that she thinks you can just pluck out of thin air. She has no idea what it's like for a lot of people. Funnily enough when she complains about not having time to shower, I'm wondering how that's possible because I used set my babies up in their bouncers in the bathroom so I could shower. Or I showered while they were asleep.