Ashley James #40 #AD(HD)

[loveanatter]

I'd love to know where she finds these dads lol. My hubby is a dad, he wears jeans,star wars tshirts and crocs most of the time lmfao

My husband has a really senior job and so sharp suits etc etc in the office - at home, jeans and a sweatshirt as standard… better known as his ‘Dad uniform’ as a joke

 

[Tank Girl]

That burn book thing has actually really shown either how self-absorbed she is, or that she doesn’t give a flying duck what she does for engagement.

It’s been ALL OVER the news. It was a horrific crime.

Ash doesn’t see the news silly she’s too BUSY WITH HER CHILDREN

 

[MillionDollarBaby]

Missed the mark twice in as many days.
Why did nobody tell her these things?!?

 

[screenfreelookatme]

I never leave my babies to cry, but here’s a video of me listening to my baby crying and sounding really distressed

 

[willowtree2]

I thought she said she never ‘lost it’ with Alf once? Weird thing to say towards your child, no?

bleeping narc squeezingggg those tears out. Fake crying you can just tell so easily.

She’s shared advice from feedeatsleep who ‘helped her on her first feeding journey’. So you didn’t need advice, you needed engagement because the Kings cancer wasn’t enough for you. Ugh

On the last lovely day update Ada has been having milk cartons for a good couple of months now. She doesn’t breastfeed not because she eats so much. She’s just never with her mum. Probably why we don’t see Lovely Day updates anymore!

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I'm confused. Why does she sit upstairs worrying about pumping if Ad only feeds overnight? Why is TNB still a single dad to Alf if Ad only feeds overnight?

Because she’s a really good mum

 

[Mightbeasharpscratch]

Mine self weaned, gently and calmly.

I mean, he was 3 by that point so ash shouldn’t hold her breath

Same!!

 

[loveanatter]

Nothing about her story currently makes sense whatsoever. Ada has cartons of milk in the day (not 1 and so not advised unless it’s formula) but she’s talked about her babies never having had formula. She’s gifted expensive pumps that pumping was all she posted for ages and now nothing. She doesn’t get an evening because she’s with Ada but we’ve had her moaning whilst she watches telly and then brought Ada down? Ada sleeps til she doesn’t.

Anddddd again. Couldn’t she get her tan done in the like 10 hours a day her children are in childcare?!?!?!

 

[littlepup]

I get it wasn’t ideal but it was one frickin’ night while she sat and filmed herself crying in the bathroom from their 5* Mauritian hotel, let’s not over state it!
Wasn’t it a second night of being a bit grumbly and they never looked back?!

I can see her taking the method of TNB settling Ada while she stays out of the way, but that’ll be it, bedtime for both kids is his job forever more.
Of course she has every right to feed and wean when and how she wishes, I just think it’ll coincide with the London move and she’ll call it a new chapter of freedom in the worst way.
I don’t know why she thinks Ada will sleep through the night though. I don’t think Alf did.

My LO weaned last year, few months shy of turning 3 and helped along by pregnancy affecting my supply. I don’t suggest that method for Ash!

 

[Ss-ldn]

I'm confused. Why does she sit upstairs worrying about pumping if Ad only feeds overnight? Why is TNB still a single dad to Alf if Ad only feeds overnight?

Can't keep track of her own lies! A couple of weeks ago she claimed she couldn't do anything for Alf because she was always upstairs breastfeeding!

I bet she's pushing to wean now the house is sold so she can be off with her London friends and go away at weekends. Kids and TNB not invited. She's got her February pink back; remember

Also note the lack of potty training updates so he's probably not cracked it with no effort on her part (no shade to the kid, but it'll be Tommy's problem now!).

 

[willowtree2]

Now that Nana’s fucked off home she can’t be bothered to carry on with potty training. If they’re ready then it should only take 3-4 days and they’re dry by day.

Funny Ada doesn’t feed in the day but on weekends we get breastfeeding selfies in the day She fed her at the weird sensory place they didn’t need to go to twice. She’s so full of tit

 

[here4thenose4321]

Will she let TNB back in the “marital” bed when she finishes feeding #Ad? That is the million dollar question!!

 

[willowtree2]

Will she let TNB back in the “marital” bed when she finishes feeding #Ad? That is the million dollar question!!

The most obvious solution would be to let Ada have Tommys room and Tommy sleep with Ash. But Ash might get cooties

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

If she thinks stopping breastfeeding will mean unbroken sleep, I’ve got news for her
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I wonder if Ada’s teeth are saw like Alf's were.

 

[cahil]

She says she never leaves her kids to cry but shes never with them? like what happens when they inevitably cry at lovely day's or with NNB/Rara?

yeah those tears... a crocodile i tell you!

 

[willowtree2]

I can’t believe it’s taken a year for her to let Tommy settle Ada. She really thinks Ada belongs to her. The fact she’s mindblown that a father without breasts could settle his baby after spending all her time preaching about dads doing more, is mind blowing

 

[Feeiona]

Thread suggestion Ashley James #41 tears as fake as her maternal love

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I can’t believe it’s taken a year for her to let Tommy settle Ada. She really thinks Ada belongs to her. The fact she’s mindblown that a father without breasts could settle his baby after spending all her time preaching about dads doing more, is mind blowing

She wouldn’t have let him try because if he was able, she wouldn’t have an excuse for avoiding Alf.

 

[sasbeep]

I don’t know why she’s acting like Ada needs her all the time and can’t possibly be settled by her own father. Ada is at full long days in childcare with multiple providers, she does days with the childminder, the baby, the nanny’s daughter, NNB … the idea that Ashley is the only one who can settle her to sleep is hilarious.
its 100% just that Ashley finds it easy to lay down breastfeeding while scrolling her phone but parenting her toddler is too hard so she wants to avoid it at all costs.

 

[YahBasic]

She wouldn’t have let him try because if he was able, she wouldn’t have an excuse for avoiding Alf.

She’s about to be as useful as a parent as she is relevant in her career.