I laugh at my husband for still spoon feeding our 20 month old yoghurt, he’s been using cutlery fine for a long time. We’ve even got him a toddler knife to help in the kitchen with cutting some veg at the kitchen counter as he kept wanting to help and he loves it! I did do a double take at the ‘little self fed’ Alf is almost a full year older than mine and he doesn’t given even get the most basic opportunities to properly interact with food