If I was her friend or Tommy or whoever I’d be genuinely concerned at her inability to be happy lately. We get it, you had a baby and your old life is more or less gone now and it’s completely ok to miss that BUT she is never on her stories in a positive way, especially as a ‘happiness coach’. I know mental health is far more complex than happy vs sad but if she’s not on about the struggles of breastfeeding it’s the struggles of stopping, or how Alfie wakes every hour or how he only wakes very early, or how he doesn’t eat that much or how he eats loads, about her weight, the patriarchy , how great she is and Tommy is so lucky but it doesn’t go the other way, honestly is she not exhausted by complaining so much? Showing the realities of life doesn’t mean you have to disclose every time you feel a bit meh about something. If I documented every waking thought and feeling I had I’d be miserable too. She’s the type of person to post a big long spiel about stubbing her toe and somehow blaming men, or the fact that she’s always had big boobs or something.
Sometimes Ashley you just have to say it is what it is and do your best to get on with things. I’ve no doubt parenthood is a struggle for most new parents but you get through it and do your best. You don’t need to whinge into your phone every time Alfie doesn’t fit into what you want or every time you post an underwear selfie someone has a thought about it that you don’t like.
I honestly don’t know how she copes in the real world with real issues and set backs at all? She gets so much help as it is and she still is only happy jetting off on luxury holidays and escaping reality.