She can’t keep up with her own bullshit
Ashley James #18 A really brilliant mum (under investigation from Social Services)
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“Ashley James: So much to unpick here”
“Ashley James: So much to unpick here”
God I really REALLY hope she books the USA road trip and baby Thumb really bleeping hates car journeys
Lovely day x
Lovely day x
Can you imagine a Hinch/Trash collab?? I’m making tea for my family and as I was squeezing the tube of purée into the onions and garlic I burst out laughing at the thought of following a recipe curated by them. “Spread tomato paste on bread - ATV”Just choked on my crunky snacks and grated cheese
Hope you’re enjoying your snacks and the carrots aren’t being commandeered by the camels.
Ashley ‘quit her job at 25 to become a professional victim’ James 
Ashley dear, childbirth has been traumatic and mentally/physically draining since the beginning of time. It’s not a new phenomenon that women struggle so why did she not know this? Not everybody glamourises childbirth/ parenting, has she seriously never heard anybody say it’s bloody hard work? And does she not realise that everything is glamourised on social media? It’s not just parenting, it’s everything! Instagram especially is just a platform for these braggy twats to show off every ‘glamorous’ aspect of their lives!
Ashley dear, childbirth has been traumatic and mentally/physically draining since the beginning of time. It’s not a new phenomenon that women struggle so why did she not know this? Not everybody glamourises childbirth/ parenting, has she seriously never heard anybody say it’s bloody hard work? And does she not realise that everything is glamourised on social media? It’s not just parenting, it’s everything! Instagram especially is just a platform for these braggy twats to show off every ‘glamorous’ aspect of their lives!
She’s only able to keep up with one type of incontinence at a time. Lovely day x
It’s seems it’s a common theme with these instahuns ( Ashley, bethsandland and Louise Thomson) who all think that childbirth is all rainbows and unicorns and don’t dare tell us anything negative- Beth even went on about taking fairy lights in to her labour room
All 3 had such high expectations of childbirth and went onexpensive and much hyped Hypnobirthing courses - yet all 3 had “trauma” and Beth and Louise both suffered with PND not so sure about Ash
They sell us these often unachievable expectationsbecause they’ve been given some goods to tout to their followers - yet if you dare point out these shortfall’s or negative experiences you’re automatically a troll who has no life
They’re the problem not us!
All 3 had such high expectations of childbirth and went on
They sell us these often unachievable expectations
They’re the problem not us!
Was she offered an epidural early on and refused? Or have I got that wrong? Why does she conveniently omit the bits of her birth story that don’t support how traumatic it was?
With mixed herbs, tumeric and grated cheese
Literally this!!!It’s seems it’s a common theme with these instahuns ( Ashley, bethsandland and Louise Thomson) who all think that childbirth is all rainbows and unicornsand don’t dare tell us anything negative- Beth even went on about taking fairy lights in to her labour room
All 3 had such high expectations of childbirth and went onexpensive and much hypedHypnobirthing courses - yet all 3 had “trauma” and Beth and Louise both suffered with PNDnot so sure about Ash
They sell us these often unachievable expectationsbecause they’ve been given some goods to tout to their followers- yet if you dare point out these shortfall’s or negative experiences you’re automatically a troll who has no life
They’re the problem not us!
I'm due in 7 weeks and this will be my second birth, first wasn't great (because ya know, it's birth) and this time I've really taken the time to listen to those before me and what issues they had with there's and how I can hopefully 'avoid' them. But you can only get this knowledge by talking to others, not blocking them and calling it unsolicited advice. This is sisterhood. She has completely romanticised birth to the point she will never ever ever have the birth she wants because it can't exist. There is no way for a baby to leave your body without pain (be it csection recovery, contractions, episiotomy etc) or somewhat damaged (not irreparable in most cases). It's impossible.
I wish she'd be more realistic by saying actually the birth itself was ok/normal, but my knowledge around it was poor and I didn't expect it to be like that, and that is where her trauma comes from. And stop blaming the midwives for 'no pain relief and incorrect stitching'.
The needing corrective surgery is a new thing from her isn’t it? Is that just another string to add to the trauma bullshit bow?
I was thinking this. When did she get corrective surgery? We would have heard no? Does she mean stitches ? I know there’s a big difference but what is she playing at here ?
Ashley , you wish wish to read here....there's even diagrams so you can identify your vulva!
www.rcog.org.uk
I hope she realises she'll still need to be doing her pelvic floor exercises following her elective caesarean
Care of a third- or fourth-degree tear that occurred during childbirth (also known as obstetric anal sphincter injury OASI) | RCOG
This information is for you if you have had an OASI during childbirth. It may also be helpful if you are a partner, friend or relative of someone who is in this situation.
www.rcog.org.uk
Aren't newborns only supposed to be in their car seat for an hour at a time? She gonna stop off every hour?
It won't need a car seat. Thumbelina can roll around in the back of the RV because Ash has 'done her research' on roadtrip living.
Never mind if they need medical care and it costs a fortune.
Well her Dad was a fireman!
This was her only ‘point’ when I contacted her genuinely worried about a poor safety practice. She considers it her job to be an influencer. So she’s allowed to spout whatever opinions she likes without accountability because it’s HER page that people choose to view or not. She doesn’t follow anyone she doesn’t know in real life (well beneath her to follow strangers like us mere mortals!!!). But anyone with a different opinion to her is a ‘negative Nancy (so bleeping rude and disrespectful), a ‘just you wait’ or provides her with unsolicited advice.
Honestly, she’s either very very manipulative. Or thick as tit. And I’m not really sure which.
Honestly, she’s either very very manipulative. Or thick as tit. And I’m not really sure which.
It’s new cos we would have heard, if only because the current waiting time to see a gynaecologist is 47 weeks (might differ a bit by trust but it’s long) and most private insurers exclude pregnancy complications so don’t cover for this. This is a first class op to blame the patriarchy that would not have been missed!
I’d like to say bravo to the anonymous tattler that really got under her skin today 
Excellent work! She exposed her own lies by responding.
(Would like to say more but don’t want to out either of us!)
Excellent work! She exposed her own lies by responding.(Would like to say more but don’t want to out either of us!)
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