As a grieving parent myself, those last precious days with your child really in my opinion, should be personal and quiet. We never got the chance to take our daughter home but gave her the dignity in hospital, keeping things quiet but making sure me and her dad were there as much as possible despite covid. I can sympathise as a grieving parent, but I dont agree on the last few days with the singing in As face, the parading her around etc.
Infact, towards other grieving families, this probably hurts more. We dont ask for freebies, we don't enquire etc....we have to get through our days the best we can. Why should they be any different to families like ours grieving for children. Or even adults. I think they need to see further afield and realise that they can do much more supporting families. Mental health workouts doesn't work for everyone believe me!