I've needed to say this after reading these threads.
Firstly as a survivor of DV, people that have voiced their opinion and concern to Saf and Ash's family members, firstly could make things so much worse if abuse was happening and secondly what gives you all the right to meddle in others situations, good willed or not. This site is to voice your opinion and call out frauds etc. Every single allegation on these two is based on opinion, hear say or vivid imagination, nothing has been proven, nothing is confirmed.
I agree that I didn't approve of the way Ash treated Saf whilst grieving, but who are we to tell anyone the right way to cope after losing your baby. The comments on here about that beautiful baby's grave, her funeral, and everything else is utterly sickening to read and sickens me to my core. Calling people the orange army and mocking the love and purity behind As legacy is literally appalling regardless of what her parents have and haven't don't to please you all, that innocent child deserves so much more and I honestly only pray that nobody has to endure anything like this. Who are any of you to tell them how to grieve, how they should treat their deceased child's resting place, how they should act during her goodbye service, its so inhuman and I pray for all of you sick, twisted individuals
What are you talking about re: domestic abuse? I’m not being disingenuous, I’d just like to understand this point. As someone who has experienced DV from a narcissist and also been raped as a teenager, I also post from a place of caution and concern.
Many people on here do think Ashley is a narcissist and controlling. I’m one of them. I think if they were obviously living together and he seemed to be influencing her daily life in a more hands-on way, if you see what I mean, the posts would be more careful. But they aren’t and he isn’t.
These threads were initially very concerned about Saf, but that has changed as he behaviour changed. I understand that. I hope she is reconciled with her mum but really my feelings lie with Azaylia and how she was treated in her last days and also how they seem to be misusing the funds.
Almost everything we talk about IS evidence based. We called out those horrible merchandising Christmas gifts, they got ditched. We called out their lack of donation for the cell sorter and they donated. Maybe they were going to do these things all along but I doubt it.
Your post is wilfully ignorant. You obviously haven’t read the threads. If you had, you wouldn’t have said those things. You’ve come here to clutch your pearls and berate us for daring to question the behaviour of two bereaved parents. To tell us we are disgusting people. Do you know there are quite a few parents on here who have also lost their children to cancer, or whose children are going through treatment at the moment? Here’s the thing, bereavement doesn’t mean you become a good person. Utter cunts can lose a child, and that will always be tragic, but they will probably stay behaving like cunts. It doesn’t excuse that behaviour. Thankfully most people aren’t horrible. But I think Ashley is, and to a lesser degree, I’m also disgusted by some of Saf’s behaviour. I have a disabled child. I’m the one who posted Saf’s rant calling people deformed and a
**** I will continue to call that behaviour out. It’s never acceptable. I will continue to call narcissists out too. I also understand your concern about increasing chances of abuse in the cases of DV. However, I do not think that is an issue here.
Read these threads properly. Then come back and tell us if you still believe all that outrage you posted. Actually don’t bother, because if you do, you will either be lying or obtuse because these threads have evidence and valid arguments. Or possibly you maybe from he Orange Squad who seem to lack critical thinking or common sense. Save your outrage for all those beautiful children, just like Azaylia, who are dying, and who could benefit from the GFM cash which IS NOT BEING USED FOR THE PURPOSE FOR WHICH IT WAS RAISED, or even from publicity which they also refuse to give.
Coming from a sad old prick who spends the day insulting a dead child duck off mate giving behind your fake profile
No one on this thread has
EVER insulted Azaylia. Many were upset and outraged at the inappropriate way her last days were managed.