I take your point, to raise a glass and reflect, i thought the way they said in as though she was still here and in the context was strange . I suspect more an engagement thing for them. I always think that Grandan and grandad always have a look of confusion or bewilderment when they are told to partakeMight be a comfort thing. Those that have passed in my life, I raised a glass to last night and said Happy Heavenly New Year. I don't think it's all that strange.
In things like this, there’s been a few occasions over the holidays