It seems to be she takes what she can get and if it means she can dump her kids on someone else it is a bonus.1. Generalising “they” would get you in trouble with a lot of cultures and the Irish in me hates an English person using it to describe us. Coloniser.
2. why does she always travel out of her way for her women? They never seem to come to her. But if my house was that much of a shithole I’d never have anyone over either.