I’m going to white knight here guys... relationships are complex. Ones where there are possible elements of relationship abuse (be it physical or psychological) are even more so. Portraying things being rosy is part of the complexity and managing the shame of being in the situation in the first place and desperately wanting it to be the way you show it to the world. That said - if you’ve experienced this, had it play out online for the world to see, for GODS SAKE learn from it playing out online and keep your new relationship off the grid. Unless you want people to have an opinion.
I came on here initially to vent my frustration that someone I once thought was cool and relatable is now another bullshitting ‘influencer’. It’s frustrating when you have read along for so long, nodding your head as you relate to what they say, only for later content to contradict what was said initially.
I’m not down with ragging on children (particularly as they have absolutely no say in being put on social media) or people’s families. Not cool. Those kiddos are going to have enough tit to deal with as it is, the internet is a permanent record.
I’m also not down with people posting all and sundry online (including children who cannot consent to this), generating a profit off of this, then being offended when people have an opinion. Then endeavouring to generate more profit from said offence by making defensive videos - which essentially cherry pick the points raised on forums that you feel will serve your purpose and completely ignoring things that are relevant points.
I’m bored now. Next.
I came on here initially to vent my frustration that someone I once thought was cool and relatable is now another bullshitting ‘influencer’. It’s frustrating when you have read along for so long, nodding your head as you relate to what they say, only for later content to contradict what was said initially.
I’m not down with ragging on children (particularly as they have absolutely no say in being put on social media) or people’s families. Not cool. Those kiddos are going to have enough tit to deal with as it is, the internet is a permanent record.
I’m also not down with people posting all and sundry online (including children who cannot consent to this), generating a profit off of this, then being offended when people have an opinion. Then endeavouring to generate more profit from said offence by making defensive videos - which essentially cherry pick the points raised on forums that you feel will serve your purpose and completely ignoring things that are relevant points.
I’m bored now. Next.