Jesus wept
I got engaged after 4 months, and I’m happily married to the bloke with a kid. I knew... but then again I was 24, didn’t have 2 kids and only had me to look out for.
I feel like it's entirely possible to be in love and do rash things because it feels right when the stakes are low and it's just the two of you. But this is not just the two of them! Also, surely if they have had an adult conversation about what their lives will look like (aside from proximity to the finest schools in the kingdom ha!) I find it extremely weird that they aren't being more cautious.
Exactly. Met husband in the May, moved in by July, engaged by the autumn. Can’t honestly imagine doing that in my 30s with 2 kids and a Smeg fridge.I moved in with my husband after 5 months but like @Dontspillthemilk was young and had no responsibilities. I would never risk my child's safety, stability and happiness on someone who is clearly dodgy. Also for every relationship where this has worked out there will be many many more where it was an utter disaster.
Just so you know your profile pic is visible in the comments section. Thought I’d give you a heads up in case you want to be anonymous
The parents don't exactly look or seem a full shilling either.
Digging around, I heard this dan didn’t make it past the probation period in his last job.. so me thinks he won’t make it past the ‘honeymoon’ period with Alice. She is impulsive but is she really so stupid as not to see through this man? Looking back on this thread, it looks a good chance Dan is rather sinister.. he has ‘people watching him’.. connection with conman, no obvious employment?.. what the..?!
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