Yes but if you decide to have children you should learn to parent both kids not just the easier one.I think it will rely on whichever one is at an ‘easier age’ for Zoe to parent. Novie is at an age at the moment where she can’t answer back, still sleeps a lot, can just be taken along where Zoe wants to go (if she leaves the house), quite chill from what we see. Ottie needs a more from the parent with her right now. It’s likely to swing back in a few years when Ottie can entertain herself and is in school.
Could it be because she’s breastfeeding? I have a newborn and can’t ever be away from her for long if at all cause i’m breastfeeding and she’ll scream until I feed her.Yes good point about equal measures but from what we've seen (and I know we don't see a lot) she always has Novie like when she went to Marks and took Novie and then to the supermarket and to get her nails done and Alfie looked after Ottie.
Maybe then but I think Novie is on the bottle now.Could it be because she’s breastfeeding? I have a newborn and can’t ever be away from her for long if at all cause i’m breastfeeding and she’ll scream until I feed her.
But she has had a therapist for years working on herself….. oh wait, what the fuck has she actually done with her? Please make it make senseIt’s Zoe, she doesn’t work on anything. Work would be likely to make her uncomfortable, and she doesn’t do anything that makes her uncomfortable.
Whatever the reasoning is there - trauma, laziness, or preference - it will have impacts on the kids. She’s needs to grow the hell up and sort her shit out and actually give both kids equal attention before it starts creating lasting issues between the kids or even just with the kids and her/Alfie.
When you're not up all night, trying desperately to keep the house on track, barely able to take care of yourself, on the very edge of your sanity because you have all the help in the world, all the time in the world, no financial stress etc etc (healthy) babies are easy as fuck. Toddlers don't give a shit if you're richI defo think a big appeal of Novie is she cute and new and Zoe can control a lot of what she does and when etc. When novie gets older and perhaps isn’t so easy it may be a different story!
They actually said in a vlog that they divide and conquer when it comes to parenting but let's be honest it's rare a mother of two has that luxury 24/7 .Could it be because she’s breastfeeding? I have a newborn and can’t ever be away from her for long if at all cause i’m breastfeeding and she’ll scream until I feed her.
She is lucky they have the jobs they do because like you said if Alfie had a normal 9-5 job he couldn't take one kid to work with him could he? but she'd probably get her mum round to look after one of the kids.They actually said in a vlog that they divide and conquer when it comes to parenting but let's be honest it's rare a mother of two has that luxury 24/7 .
Most stay at home mums with a partner who goes out to works will have the newborn and the toddler and that's her life, it's her normal, they are both her children and she heads into her day with both in toe.
Pre Novie they divided the parenting
I think it became clear Zoe did Ottie's feeds and Alfie then took her and did everything else
then for two years Alfie was like a single dad always out and about alone with Ottie
then Zoe suffered from bad mental health and spent months in bed during her second pregnancy so full care was on Alfie now present day to cope with having two children she manages best with just one at a time .....
At the end of the day if they weren't millionaires and she didn't have a bloke as good with kids as him she would be up shit creek with the social sniffing round her imo.
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