Not that I like Amelia, I dont. But just to say, not all couples have to change their names, have a the woman take the man's name (in a cis hetero relationship) or double barrel. I didn't take my husband's name even though it's easier to spell and much to the shock of my ethnic minority family! Also I gave a speech at our wedding as did he. If the groom can give a speech, so can the bride. If you're both getting married, you both should have the choice to.Not long I shouldn’t think. she did the speech at her wedding! She will do anything and everything to go against the mould and not conform to society! Anything to bring attention to herself
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But I will add that giving that child a surname like Goodhead Barry is just asking for him to be bullied at school haha