You know, I'll admit that when I was 23, I might have enjoyed someone like Amelia. Someone who does what she wants, always puts herself first, changes her tune every five seconds, is callous with her romantic partners because who knows what time will bring, sort of thinks she'll scrape by without putting in the work, exaggeratedly focuses on her own feelings, confidently overestimates her every contribution, and plays computer games instead of working but can still afford whatever she seems to want. Truth be told, I would have found that fun to watch. Of course, I would only have related if Amelia, too, was 23. Otherwise I'd just have wondered why that 30-something doesn't have her act together, because much like Amelia herself, I was very judgy
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