My first trip to the cinema was to see The Flintstones with my cousins, first concert/festival was Spice girls with my uncles (they volunteered to go for Geri), first mocktail was at my prom, first spa day was with my mates after the A level exams,
All these experiences, at different ages gave me a greater appreciation for them.
Becky seems to be hell bent on making sure every first is with her. She is literally cramming every coming of age experience possible into Nina’s preschool schedule. It might serve good memories for Becky herself, due to Nina’s submissive nature, but Nina won’t care for these experiences. She’s taking a lot of potential & curiosity out of her future.