I’m really surprised someone would be upset or think it’s disrespectful for their partner to wank while in a relationship .... or think it’s ‘over someone else’ either, i’d think sometimes it’s just the urge isn’t it? I mean, at what stage on the relationship do you stop?! I’d never considered it.I'd find it quite soul destroying if I knew my partner was having a crafty wank behind my back, especially if it was over someone else! Seems to be not much respect for you at all really
The wanking wouldn’t worry me at all, especially if I’d just had a baby. I’d be super arsed off about leaving the socks & shite out & the general slobby behaviour. Rather eat sweets and crap then come to bed with me. I wouldn’t even want my OHs sweaty, dirty socks down the sofa let alone spunky ones!
I’d suggest getting a box of tissues and a waste paper basket and keeping them on/under a table next to the sofa. No excuses. If he can’t even then put his wrappers into the bin next to him then it’s a real case of disrespect and idolness and he needs to grow up. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s wiping his bogies on that sofa!