I threw away my ex’s spare prosthetic that he’d left at my house.
Enjoy your ‘armless fun now, twat
Enjoy your ‘armless fun now, twat
omg yesss haha!Not the most petty, but a guy was being really rude to me in a pub recently. Later that night in another pub I saw him trying to chat up this girl, I totally swooped in & ended up spending the night kissing her, in front of him. He was fuming
Why were you still there after the black eye. You should have been long gone.Made a dog food pie for an ex after he'd given me a back eye , he bloody enjoyed it
Yeah I know but it's not always easy to walk away from a dv situation especially when the abuser controls every aspect of your life and locks you in the property and only way to escape is to shimmy down a drain pipe from the upstairs window. Abuse obviously got worse but I got out in the end.Why were you still there after the black eye. You should have been long gone.
Nice bit of victim blaming there. I hope you never find yourself in that situationWhy were you still there after the black eye. You should have been long gone.
Donna is my spirit animal
FFS If you think that is victim blaming, I say it is keeping my female relatives safe.Nice bit of victim blaming there. I hope you never find yourself in that situation
Glad you are safe now, I wasn't blaming you but male or female get out at the first sign of DV. It will only get worse if you do nothing.Yeah I know but it's not always easy to walk away from a dv situation especially when the abuser controls every aspect of your life and locks you in the property and only way to escape is to shimmy down a drain pipe from the upstairs window. Abuse obviously got worse but I got out in the end.
Why were you still there after the black eye. You should have been long gone.
The issue I have with what you're saying is that many people who end up being physically abused have already been mentally abused for months if not years prior to the physical starting. Many don't see the signs, as they are extremely subtle.Glad you are safe now, I wasn't blaming you but male or female get out at the first sign of DV. It will only get worse if you do nothing.
I wasn't looking for an argument, then Cassie thought the best way to deal with it is to accuse me of victim blaming.The issue I have with what you're saying is that many people who end up being physically abused have already been mentally abused for months if not years prior to the physical starting. Many don't see the signs, as they are extremely subtle.
Once you have been worn down enough to believe that you are worthless it's hard to then believe that the physical violence wasn't somehow your own fault (especially as this is what the abuser will tell you whilst "apologising"). By this point you are pretty much reliant on the manipulative abuser because they've also managed to isolate you from friends/family. Their own family members may be aware of what's going on and because they do nothing about it you start to think it must be normal. It's not that easy to leave a situation when you genuinely believe you'll be killed or you family harmed for doing so.
That's just my two pence I'm not here for an argument.
Yet here you are, ridiculing someone for staying after their horrible experience as if it’s so easy to just leave forever on the spotI wasn't looking for an argument, then Cassie thought the best way to deal with it is to accuse me of victim blaming.
What you said is true in many different situations, sometimes we put up with bad doctors, hoping it will get better. We put up with bad service hoping it will improve.
It's not just women, many men face similar issues but won't speak out for fear of being ridiculed.
I wasn't looking for an argument, then Cassie thought the best way to deal with it is to accuse me of victim blaming.
What you said is true in many different situations, sometimes we put up with bad doctors, hoping it will get better. We put up with bad service hoping it will improve.
It's not just women, many men face similar issues but won't speak out for fear of being ridiculed.
I'm being a bit fick tonight, can you explain this a bit better please.reconnect with an estranged parent partially due to my step parent saying I deserved to be SA'd and I did it to get said estranged parents attention.
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?